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inmisery1 (original poster member #30905) posted at 3:01 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
The details come out he boinked this 1 in my car in the church parking lot after church
plainpain ( member #40139) posted at 3:58 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
Oh wow. I don't even know what to say to that. That's seriously messed up. I'm so sorry.
Me: Believer, 40s
Him: Liar, 40s
Married 19 years
1 year EA/2 month PA/incidental infidelities I can't begin to process
OC born 2014
OW:21
In successful R. It only hurts now when it rains.
TS68 ( member #40211) posted at 3:58 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
I am sorry for you. Unbelievable, after church?? Why does he go at all? I am starting to wonder why these guys have no conscience or sense of right and wrong. It is all about getting away with it... Would love to know how you found this out. Did he tell you?
Me: 48
Him: 50
Married 22 years too many
DS19, DS17, DD10
Divorced
Know your worth.
Phoenix9572 ( member #39987) posted at 4:00 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
(((inmisery1)))
I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this new news. I don't know your full story but I did see that you have a hard time with places that you know your WH was with AP which is understandable. I'm sure this one is exceptionally hard.
Please take comfort in knowing you are supported by all the great folks here. It definitely helps me in knowing I'm not completely alone.
Me - 40
WH - 42
Married 18 years
kids - 14, 12
DD - May 13, 2013
DD2 - Aug 4, 2013
DD3 - Aug 27, 2013
Status - Legally separated; really wanted R but don't think that is possible anymore
inmisery1 (original poster member #30905) posted at 4:00 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
Yes he came clean, he met her in a bar and she invited him to her church and if she breajs nc guess whos pastor is getting a call
inmisery1 (original poster member #30905) posted at 5:14 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
AND today is my birthday!Wow! they are just keepin it classy
madsadalone ( member #39201) posted at 5:16 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
(((Misery)))))
Happy Birthday
Me: BS 47
Him:WH 55
M: 27 yrs
DD 4/29/13
3 kids (25,23,22
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 5:17 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
Hey..it's my birthday too...it's after 12:00PM here...and my WH has yet to acknowledge that it's my birthday. hmm..Ive been telling him that I feel like I don't matter...this pretty much proves it,huh?
So...Happy Birthday..and to hell with our WH's today.
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 5:22 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
Happy Birthday, girlies!!!!
And yes, that story is pretty damn gross.
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
inmisery1 (original poster member #30905) posted at 5:28 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
It's so ridiculously horrible, it's funny! I'm just flabbergasted! What a turd.
madsadalone ( member #39201) posted at 5:52 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
T/J
It is also my daughter's birthday. Three strong, beautiful women!
Sorry end t/j
Me: BS 47
Him:WH 55
M: 27 yrs
DD 4/29/13
3 kids (25,23,22
k9lover1 ( member #8531) posted at 6:33 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
Why do you continue to put up with this?
D-Day was 10/9/05
He promised NC. He lied. After 4 chances, I kicked him out 1/05/06.
Since then I have survived cancer surgery and a heart attack.
Now he's sorry, but it's too late. He died an alcoholic on 9/5/17.
inmisery1 (original poster member #30905) posted at 7:32 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
Im not, i'm lawyering up asap. Were closing on a second home condo next week. i'm playing along until I talk to someone
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