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scream (original poster member #36506) posted at 9:56 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
Why is our lives as the ws and theirs as the bs feel like what happened was a bad dream that you can't wake up from? I woke up today just in a funk and think I had a dream and can't remember it. But it wasn't good. Just wish I could bring her peace and a feeling of safety.
Sam793 ( member #37081) posted at 11:20 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2013
The way I look at it is what I did is in the past so it's like a dream. It was real though but looking back in my current state of mind it's like how could I have done something like this to the person I was supposed to love forever no matter what.
As for the BS I don't think they see it as a dream but more as a reality as they are living it now. They wish it was a dream but to them it's not.
I see where you're coming from and I get in these funks too but you need to see that what doesn't seem real to you is in realtime for them. Hope it helps.
Me: 38 BS: 33
3 y/o DD and one new DS
Married: 9 years
3.5yr A
Status: Each day I find more of how I screwed up
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