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User Topic: there is hope
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Default  Posted: 3:58 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I used to frequent this site relentlessly back 8 years ago. I wanted to say that there is hope. After 8 years, I rarely think of the A, my marriage is strong. I have not forgotten, though, the horror that DDay unleashed. I hope this post makes some people feel that there is hope.

1 daughter
married 16 yrs

Posts: 721 | Registered: May 2005 | From: new england
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Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow 8 years? What made you decide to come back to visit? I am still in the dark after I uncovered a bunch of lies about time my H spent with his secretary... Swears not physical but definitely crossed the line. Lots of lies, even after i begged him to stop. She still works with him and I am out of town with the kids, feeling nauseated constantly wondering what he is doing. So if I do uncover something deeper, is it really worth sticking with him? It will ruin my self esteem and I cannot wait 8 years...

I am happy for you, hope you NEVER have to go through this pain again!
Thank you for the support and encouragement

“One concrete way in which we all landscape our sanity is by having our experience of reality confirmed by others. When our experience of reality is disconfirmed by others, our confidence in our own sanity can be undermined.” ~Graeme Galton

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