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User Topic: WARNING
wifehad5
♂ 15162
Member # 15162
Target  Posted: 5:54 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lately there has been a rash of name calling and venting here in the Reconciliation forum. While venting and name calling is an important part of healing, this is not the place for it. Feel free to vent away in General. It can be cathartic. Don't do it here.

Reconciliation is a safe zone for people to post their struggles and successes. Please make yourself familiar with the Forum Description. It's on the main page right in the same box as the link to get here.


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37866 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
metamorphisis
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Member # 12041
Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know someone must have read this. Just in case it's been completely missed ..here's a bump.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 45403 | Registered: Sep 2006
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for anyone who didn't see this yesterday.

Posts: 36797 | Registered: Mar 2011
AFrayedKnot
♂ 36622
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 2:41 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the reminder


BS 40
fWS 37 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2692 | Registered: Aug 2012
Rebreather
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Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the head's up.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6693 | Registered: Jan 2011
LA44
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Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree wifehad5! Thanks for posting that.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2677 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
StillGoing
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Member # 28571
Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Understood and sorry again.

Also, every time I notice this thread title I hear it in a Geoff Tate shriek in my head.


"You have insulted my footwear."

Posts: 7635 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
wifehad5
♂ 15162
Member # 15162
Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was going to title it something different, but I was outvoted. I'll save that one for later


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37866 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18694 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
metamorphisis
♀ 12041
Member # 12041
Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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stillsad1970
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Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry , didn't read this before I posted. Sorry everyone.

Posts: 78 | Registered: Apr 2013
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Why don't you just say it? I'm the worst toy-maker in the world. I'm a Cotton-Headed Ninnymuggins!

Posts: 8268 | Registered: Dec 2010
Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 9:18 AM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 31 years 9/2/14
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS,2yo GD & 3 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 5173 | Registered: May 2007
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 6042 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
Lucky
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Thanks for keeping it clean


♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥


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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And THAT'S why I don't post here. I can't trust myself!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2361 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18694 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
LosferWords
♂ 30369
Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Why don't you just say it? I'm the worst toy-maker in the world. I'm a Cotton-Headed Ninnymuggins!

Posts: 8268 | Registered: Dec 2010
SI Staff
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Default  Posted: 9:26 PM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump

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