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ajsmom (original poster member #17460) posted at 4:33 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Yesterday was D-SD #1's birthday. A big one too - she turned 30.
I hesitated about texting her birthday greetings as I've not heard from her since Christmas (despite my reaching out) and her sister, D-SD #2, has completely ignored my contact for oh, about 4 years now. Given #1's NC I figured they'd joined forces in ignoring me.
Well, hell must have frozen over a wee bit as she actually acknowledged my message with a delightful message back.
Boomya!
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 4:34 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Hey there Biscuit, so glad you got a pleasant response! 
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
cryingdaily ( member #7276) posted at 4:40 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
That's awesome, biscuit.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:43 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 4:48 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 4:51 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 6:11 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Many times after a divorce stepkids break contact with us stepparents. I hope this was an ice breaker for a future relationship.
Great news for you !
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 6:56 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
happy news!!
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 7:52 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Awesome, biscuit... just awesome.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 8:04 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
click4it ( member #209) posted at 9:22 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Love that title!!! 
Happy for you.
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 9:22 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Biscuit it has been a long time since you came around here. Thanks for the good update.
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 9:22 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Very happy for you, Ms. Biscuit
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 9:22 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:45 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
Well, I'm happy to call you a Biscuit, but you're gonna have to take care of the butter yourself.... 
I can't believe no one else beat me to that.
[This message edited by kernel at 9:16 PM, August 9th (Friday)]
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 4:09 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
Love it Biscuit! You know how much this warms my heart - the fear of not having my DSD in my life was one of my biggest fears after Dday. She may not be mine by blood, but I love that girl.
So I totally get it ajs! So happy for you. It may be sporadic, but appreciate the response nonetheless. ((Hugs))
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 4:38 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
Yee-haw! Here's some gravy! 
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 6:11 PM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
Biscuit !!!!! I hope she continues to keep contact going both ways. P
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
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