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Topic: Reclaimed a vacation spot
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JanaGreen
♀ 29341
Member # 29341 |  Posted: 2:46 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013 |     |
Last year we went to St. George Island. Throughout the trip, he was distant, short, and mean. Just had that look the whole time like he disapproved of me in general.
D-Day 2 happened the week after we returned.
We went last week. I was really apprehensive about going and felt like it would feel the same. It didn't. It was great. We had a wonderful time. I didn't want to leave and I can't wait to go back. 
He's 41, I'm 35. One awesome 6-year-old daughter, and a brand-new sweet baby boy, June 5.
Posts: 7716 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: The land of a thousand guilts and poured cement |
LosferWords
♂ 30369
Member # 30369 | | Posted: 2:51 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013 | |
That's awesome. I am all about stories of reclamation. Thanks for sharing this, Jana.
Posts: 24542 | Registered: Dec 2010 |
JanaGreen
♀ 29341
Member # 29341 | | Posted: 2:57 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013 | |
Thanks Losfer. 
He's 41, I'm 35. One awesome 6-year-old daughter, and a brand-new sweet baby boy, June 5.
Posts: 7716 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: The land of a thousand guilts and poured cement |
Rebreather
♀ 30817
Member # 30817 | | Posted: 2:58 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013 | |
That's great. You guys have come so far.
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
Posts: 7763 | Registered: Jan 2011 |
LA44
♀ 38384
Member # 38384 | | Posted: 5:27 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013 | |
That's great JanaGreen! I am happy for you.
LA
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
Posts: 3437 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh |
HFSSC
♀ 33338
Member # 33338 | | Posted: 5:56 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013 | |
I love it!
Jana you are one of the people who has inspired me and given me hope through this journey. Thanks for sharing this!
Me, 49
Him, 41 (JMSSC)
married 19 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.
Posts: 3631 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina |
JanaGreen
♀ 29341
Member # 29341 | | Posted: 8:05 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013 | |
Thank you Rebreather. I wouldn't have thought this time last year that we'd be together & happy! Thanks LA44! HFSSC I am really touched that you feel that way. Thank you!
He's 41, I'm 35. One awesome 6-year-old daughter, and a brand-new sweet baby boy, June 5.
Posts: 7716 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: The land of a thousand guilts and poured cement |
OnAnIsland
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Member # 34319 | | Posted: 6:31 AM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013 | |
You are very brave. Thank you for sharing. Keep on walking and working
D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013
Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful sons
You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou
Posts: 1486 | Registered: Dec 2011 |
MrsDoubtfire
♀ 24786
Member # 24786 | | Posted: 7:51 AM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Well done Jana- you really have come through to a better place.
You're an inspiration
BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now become†
Posts: 1622 | Registered: Jul 2009 |
kickboxer
♀ 39858
Member # 39858 | | Posted: 10:17 AM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013 | |
My dd was about a month ago, and we were on vacation.
I still can't go through the pictures...a friend asked me for a few and I did what I had to do to find the few she was looking for, but I kept seeing them as a timeline. There were pics I took less than 1 hour before I found out...one minute I was living the life I thought we had, and the next I was living in a lie.
One day I hope to find the same peace you describe.
BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 15 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.
Posts: 253 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Somewhere Out There |
brokensmile322
♀ 35758
Member # 35758 | | Posted: 10:37 AM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013 | |
What a difference a year makes! Glad for you, Jana!
Me BS 42 Him WS 44
OW Coworker DDay April 7, 2012
EA on a slippery slope...
When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor Frankl
"When you are happy, you can forgive a great deal."
Posts: 2029 | Registered: Jun 2012 |
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