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JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 8:46 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Last year we went to St. George Island. Throughout the trip, he was distant, short, and mean. Just had that look the whole time like he disapproved of me in general.
D-Day 2 happened the week after we returned.
We went last week. I was really apprehensive about going and felt like it would feel the same. It didn't. It was great. We had a wonderful time. I didn't want to leave and I can't wait to go back. 
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 8:51 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
That's awesome. I am all about stories of reclamation. Thanks for sharing this, Jana.
JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 8:57 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Thanks Losfer. 
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 8:58 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
That's great. You guys have come so far.
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
LA44 ( member #38384) posted at 11:27 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
That's great JanaGreen! I am happy for you.
LA
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 11:56 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
I love it!
Jana you are one of the people who has inspired me and given me hope through this journey. Thanks for sharing this!
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 2:05 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
Thank you Rebreather. I wouldn't have thought this time last year that we'd be together & happy! Thanks LA44! HFSSC I am really touched that you feel that way. Thank you!
OnAnIsland ( member #34319) posted at 12:31 PM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
You are very brave. Thank you for sharing. Keep on walking and working
D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013
Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful sons
You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou
MrsDoubtfire ( member #24786) posted at 1:51 PM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
Well done Jana- you really have come through to a better place.
You're an inspiration
BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now become†
kickboxer ( member #39858) posted at 4:17 PM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
My dd was about a month ago, and we were on vacation.
I still can't go through the pictures...a friend asked me for a few and I did what I had to do to find the few she was looking for, but I kept seeing them as a timeline. There were pics I took less than 1 hour before I found out...one minute I was living the life I thought we had, and the next I was living in a lie.
One day I hope to find the same peace you describe.
BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 15 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.
brokensmile322 ( member #35758) posted at 4:37 PM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
What a difference a year makes! Glad for you, Jana!
Me BS 42 Him WS 44
OW Coworker DDay April 7, 2012
EA on a slippery slope...
When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor Frankl
"When you are happy, you can forgive a great deal."
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