So I finally got this all typed up, seriously why did I make him hand write it again.
For now, I am not going to send it... but I have it saved. I am really torn because I would love for her to read what he has to say to her, but I am so scared of her trying to contact him.
Toothless Hag,
I should have written this a long time ago, I have put it off for far to long.
It is true that SH7 and I had troubles in our lives. I was confident for a while that she didn’t care for me anymore and thought it was a matter of time before our marriage was over. What I didn’t know was the fact that I would end up doing something I knew was wrong! Something I will forever regret! That would be having an affair with you!!!
Looking back now, I realize you had been wanting me all along. You could tell I wasn’t happy, but instead of just offering a little advice or encouragement, you lured me onto a path I should have never traveled! I wanted nothing more than to work things out with SH7 and the kids and be the family we should have been. Your plans were obviously different.
In a weird way of stating it, you brain washed me by telling me things I wanted to hear, saying things that made me think I was better off without all of them and so on. I was basically putty in your hands, at my lowest most vulnerable point in my life, and you took advantage of it the full extent!!
I was in a downward spiral and you knew it! I wasn’t thinking clearly and I needed help! When I told you SH7 said I needed help, you turned it all around saying they were the problem and continued telling me things that somehow made sense to me at the time but lured me more into the affair.
When it got to the point where she found out something was going on, I should have known to end everything once and for all!!! But no, you continued contacting me through emails even though I had asked you then not to contact me ever again. Yes, I was weak but you knew that didn’t you?!?!
Am I to blame for some of this? YES, I am guilty of letting it happen and ashamed that I let it go on for so long. I was flattered by the attention I was given but should have known better and stopped it. I should have talked to my wife and worked it out with her, instead of listening to more of your lies! But "should have" won't change it, so now I will happily spend the rest of my life showing her how much I love her, how sorry I am and doing my best to make it up to her.
When the “remote control to my eye” incident occurred, I seemed destined for a divorce. About 5 weeks after she moved out, I met another woman and dated her for a few weeks. Being with you was the last thing I wanted! If that hurts you, I really don’t care. I never once said that if I ever got a divorce you and I would be together. If you thought that, you were gravely mistaken. I would never end up with someone like you. You have more problems than I care to mention. I would be ashamed to be seen in public with you. You don’t even come close to measuring up in ANY way to my beautiful,sexy, caring, loving wife!
During the months I had the house to myself, and once I was away from your lies, I finally got the help I needed. I started talking to SH7 again and eventually we started dating. She went with me to one of my sessions and we figured out a lot of our problems that day. A light bulb went off in my head and we have been together ever since. In fact, we are stronger now than we have been in a really long time. Just one session is all it took for me to see what you had tried to take away from me. One session is all it took to start saving my marriage! One session to know that I didn’t want to go on without her!
Why am I telling you all of this? To let you know that you have failed to keep us apart! You can’t ever really separate two people that truly love each other. Since we have reunited, we have renewed our marriage vows! You see, TRUE LOVE ALWAYS ENDURES! Something you will never have. I blame myself for putting SH7 through so much hate but I also blame you for luring me into an affair. You were suppose to be our friend, I trusted you. But at least now I know what kind of low life piece of swamp trash you really are!!!
I have taken steps to avoid you. Have even switched bowling leagues. You can just stay away from both of us, as far away as you can, hell wouldn’t be far enough away. SH7 has helped to open my eyes to the way you are. I see you for what you really are now and can’t believe I was that damn stupid!!! She has told me about seeing you with other guys recently, smoking. What was it you always told me? Oh yeah, I would never smoke, it’s bad for you. My first thought was what a fucking hypocrite! Then my second was, I guess you change yourself to tailor whatever married man you are going to go after next. Makes me wonder just how many phony stories you actually told me in the first place. Along with playing on my sympathy about your house burning down and your son having to rescue your baby. Hate to tell you, but that story is online on a boy scout website. Your son wouldn’t have had to rescue your baby if you hadn’t of jumped out the window and left her behind!!! That right there showed me how selfish you are!
Am I upset over finding out all this about you? No, actually I am relieved to find out how fake you really are! I hate myself for letting all of this happen and ultimately hate you for taking advantage of me. Yes, I let it happen and for the life of me do not know why I let it! Let’s face it, you are not anywhere near being attractive by any guys standards. And I have a beautiful, gorgeous wife. Yet you manage to lure guys that don’t have their heads on straight, have problems in their marriage and you tell them everything they want to hear and you then lure them into an affair by teasing them with sexual enuendos until they give in! I can’t believe I fell for your tricks, but I did. Damn you for all of this! I am just glad that I finally got the help I needed and ended it once and for all!
You are nothing but a married man predator! There should be a sign in your front yard warning unhappy men to stay the hell away! Everyone should know a stalker and a predator lives there! I had thought about outing you to the entire bowling league, however, for now SH7 doesn’t want me to do that. However, should you ever try to contact me again that will be the second thing I do, the first being tell my loving wife.
Don’t ever try to contact either of us. I’m happy now! I love her more than anything in this world! I know that she is my soul mate, I honestly don’t think I would have survived losing her and I will NEVER allow anyone or anything to come between us again!! Do me and all of the other potential victims a favor! Keep your nasty self inside of your stinky troll cave and STAY AWAY!!!!!