I'm not sure if I am imagining things or being gaslighted.
In the past I was positive I could hear my WS texting when we were in different rooms, then I heard the noise while he was away from home. I discovered it was a house noise that sounded similar. There have been several times I was positive my WS was lying and went to get proof to find out he was where he said he would be.
Now I'm hearing what sounds like muffed voices (a high tone & a low tone) usually after he goes to bed at night(we have separate rooms) but I can't make out any words. I've asked if he has another phone. WS says no & I want to believe him. It's really hard, I think he has another phone and he knows it. He even asks me "did you hear voices last night?" He leaves the bedroom door open so I can walk in there anytime I want.
WS appears to be doing all the right things, no contact letter, trying to put shield in place at work to prevent contact, answers most questions I ask (although he thinks it's unhealthy for me & our relationship), hugs me more than he has in many years, tries to do the things I ask to please me as we try to work out our long term problems that existed before the A .......... but I am very suspicious.
WS has broke no contact a few times. I even found a no contact letter he sent, without my knowledge, asking the OW stop contacting him and use another contact person at work if she needs something work related.
I just wish I knew if it's my suspicious mind making things up or I'm be gaslighted. Then I can make a decision to stay or leave the relationship.