WH still hasnt replied to my text, and as hard as it is for me not to text him again, I haven't. NC is my friend right now but there is still drama!!!
Stupid me checks out OW's fb and also WH's brother and sil, all who are blocked on my main fb account. Sometimes I get pleasure out of some of the stupid things i see on OW's fb, like her post about not liking her daughter's boyfriend, poor thing, wonder how her daughter feels about hers, LOL
But alas the reason for this post.......
WH's brother and his wife are coming to our province for a visit and I am dreading it, they were home last year and I managed to avoid them and despite my worries, they never met OW
But with the posts i have seen between OW and SIL, I suspect they will meet this time around. It makes me sick but then at the same time, everyone else that has met her doesnt like her. And I really shouldn't care about the meeting. After all, look how they have treated me, the mother of their neice and nephew, the wife of his brother, we were together 22 1/2 years when this bullshit started!!
I really have to look at the positive of this, whether they like her or not should not matter to me, they are and will never ever be a part of my life again, I want nothing to do with them ever again.
But my question is.....am i just being unreasonable? after all it is his family, not mine, and they live in another province, this is just a visit, but it still hurts that I have just been pushed aside. They dont know the truth, the brother that lives close to me and his wife have been great, he has met OW and doesnt like her, his wife has never met her and doesnt want to. So they will always be family
I have to remember that this other brother and his wife have no clue what has been going on, they dont live here, they are two faced and I never really liked them anyway, this brother is the one that was fishing around for information from me when their dad was dying, to see what I knew about who gets what, and low and behold, he got something that their mom has always said my WH was going to have, he got it and I think this has played a role is some of WH's brokenness
Sorry so long, just trying to figure this all out, thanks for reading