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User Topic: 17 Years Ago Today
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Was my wedding day to my STBXH. I was the happiest woman in the world. My 2nd wedding, his first. He wanted a church wedding because he was only going to get married once. (First marriage was not in a church).

The pain of this day just snuck up on me. Last year (first anniversary after D-day) I had just lost my daughter so really cognizant of anything. This year I feel it. Today sucks. I had not even really put it in my mind up until 2 hours ago. Woke up with a headache, wondered how that happened. Made plans for lunch with daughters. Then it hit me. My anniversary. Then I wonder if he remembers. What he is doing.

Getting a little weepy. I may have to take either take something or go shopping. Anything to get my mind off of today.

I really hate what he has done.

WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." Daenerys Targaryen

Posts: 938 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: 45, independent, happy, despite parallel parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 14 DS 11
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 6504 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
♀ 33581
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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry sweetie. ((((HUGS)))) to you. Be kind to yourself.

If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1525 | Registered: Oct 2011
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Member # 6449
Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((MustSurvive)))) I'm sorry this date is bringing such painful memories to surface. Good advice I received for times like this is to acknowledge the memories, then let them go and make this a day of celebrating YOU, go shopping or do anything to take your mind away from this. Peace and strength to you!

~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"

Posts: 10020 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
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