Ugh.
I know I shouldn't do it, but I do it anyway. I sometimes check ex's FB page to see what's up.
I'm the one who left the marital home (had a bit of a breakdown), while he stayed in it and paid all bills, etc.
Problem is, the home is in my name only, mortgage, insurance, etc. This is how I justify stalking him on FB, making sure house is still standing.
It's a long, tedious story, but it comes down to the home will be sold when he's good and ready to sell it. He makes the mortgage payments, upkeep, etc. He cannot get a loan in his name (very bad credit).
In order to save my sanity, I no longer push to sell the home or him to buy me out.
This is where my stalking comes in. He'll post upgrades on the home on FB. I see them, get pissed because he'd never lift a finger to improve home when we were together, hence it tears a bit at old scabs.
At this point there's really nothing to be done on my part until he decides to sell it, which then he'll have to track me down in order for sale to go forward. I'll be as responsive to him as he has been to me in the past.
Still kind of tied to the fucktard, unfortunately.
I have to stop looking at his FB page.