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Hey people,
Well yet another night spent crying alone!
I feel o alone, never in my life have I felt this alone.
Im crying out for his love effection, and what he is giving me isn't enough I want him to want me like I want him, I want him to hold me tight like he doesn't ever want to loose me! but no... he's the cheater and I feel cheated and chasing him for effection! I jus want to scream I feel so unloved and unwanted!! its killing me, he use to be so passionate and loving now I jus get the to tired for anything! I cant cope.

I'm pretty new here but I think you need to look up the 180 and implement it right away. I only did it a tiny bit but that was enough to snap my WH to attention. My understanding is that you would be doing it for you, to help you feel stronger and less like a doormat. Ever since I did it, I have felt stronger. Not less sad but less unloveable, less pathetic. Please try it.

We all feel you sweetie. Kisses and hugs from this corner and I am sure many others.

I have had a look at that!! I will defo try as hard as I can to do that I jus feel like ive no fight left In me!! im tired and exhausted!! Thanx ppl x

Oh I know how you feel. It's all I can do to get out of bed most days. It's not depression, it's complete body fatigue. It's awful. I hate that I'm letting my kids down because of what my H chose to do. :(