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tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 5:36 AM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
It was nice. I enjoyed myself. Chatted a bit with my coworkers. (Coworker got married.) But I felt weird...like I shouldn't be there. Dunno what that was all about...ex-shat and I didn't have a wedding (just went to the courthouse), so no triggers. Maybe just the whole marriage, till death do us part thing. Maybe it was that everyone was paired up and I was the obvious single.
I'm still glad I went but at the same time, feeling down about the whole thing.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
stillstrong ( member #36144) posted at 5:42 AM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
I haven't been to a wedding, but I see lots of weddings and it always makes me feel sad for their future. Maybe you just feel like the whole thing is kind of a farce/pointless/doomed? 
Not that I'm bitter or anything
Me BS 47
Him WS 51
DDay LTA Feb 21, 2006
R until DDay 2EA's 1/31/12 ONS 2/5/12 Broken NC 7/12/12
Moved out 9/12
Legally Separated 3/13
click4it ( member #209) posted at 5:47 AM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
Tesla, I feel that same type of feeling when I go to weddings. I feel happy for the couple and have a nice time, but just feel "blah" after. Its understandable. (((hugs)))
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 1:04 PM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
I've been to 4 weddings this past year.
The first was tough - by the fourth I was partying like a boss and dancing like it was 1999.
It gets easier.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
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