I have a few more months until the divorce is finalized. Its been more than a year since DD and separation.
This summer I had the opportunity to reconnect with an old flame who I met before my BS. We reconnected at a friends wedding we were both at.
He lives in another state. I could tell that he was staring at me and looking at me off an on. He also told a friend that he was really upset that my husband cheated on me. We had a chance to talk and we talked for several hours about life and random stuff. It seemed like the conversation was going well. He gave me a book to read as well.
He is such an easy going person to talk to and we have a lot in common. He is a really caring guy towards his family and I really like his humor.
He told me to email him if I have any questions. He also said that he may email me about my career etc. He did mention that he does not like email and prefers to just talk to people in person or on phone.
However, when I came back home, I emailed him after one week. I emailed him about the book. I could see that he opened the email one week after I sent it. However, it's been one months since I sent the email and still no reply. I could see that he has been on face book since then because he added new friends.
His friend asked me if I was interested in him. I asked his friend what he thought of me. And he said that he told him that he's in grauduate school and I am going through a divorce so he's not sure how it would all work out. I told the friend that I am not ready to have a conversation about marriage since I am not divorced yet and that I still have to see if any guy would be a good father for my son.
I am wondering if he is even interested in me now. He seemed interested in me but then I did not hear back from him once I left the state. Also, I know he is in graduate school and busy. I am not sure if he found someone etc.
I also said wrong things when I saw him; I told him that I wanted to figure myself out before I commit to someone. I said I want to live live right now, travel, etc before i get into a committed relationship. But the that wasnt the complete truth. I was just trying to play hard to get and show that I am confident. I dont know if this worked against me.
I also want to wait until the divorce is finalized before I get serious with someone. But it's killing me because I do like this person and I do not know if hes interested, I got mixed messages so far. Should i assume he isnt interested.