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Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 |  Posted: 12:08 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 |     |
Just moved back to NY after a 23-year absence. Got into a minor fenderbender in a parking lot this morning. Bummer, but not a huge deal (I hope! My new employer expects a clean driving record.)
I was pulling through into a parking spot--two front-to-back spaces were open. The car next to me decided at that moment to pull out (she was also facing forward) and took a hard right-right at me. I accelerated slightly and pulled to the right also in an attempt to avoid her but she hit me and scraped along the driver side of my car from the driver's door to the beginning of my left rear quarter panel.
She asked if I thought we should call the police; having written insurance in NY for many years before moving, I told her it wasn't necessary because there were no injuries, and it was private property. We exchanged insurance info and both called our insurance carriers at the scene.
I just got a call from a police officer taking an accident report. I questioned the need, but he said the other driver wanted to make a report. He raked me over the coals about my explanation, saying things like 'her car could not be going SIDEWAYS' and basically calling me a liar. I explained that the only way I could have avoided her was to throw my car into reverse, which I don't think I could have effected quickly enough, so I tried to avoid her by moving forward & to the right. Even if I just stopped, she would have crashed into my front quarter panel because she vered into my space (cutting across what she assumed was an empty parking space rather than pulling forward then turning right.)
He was a dick. I normally love cops but he pissed me off royally.  Fuck him.
Welcome to NY  [This message edited by Sad in AZ at 12:09 PM, August 11th (Sunday)]
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Posts: 25063 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona |
jrc1963
♀ 26531
Member # 26531 |  Posted: 1:06 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 | |
Ugh.... I'm sorry!
Me: BSO - 48
Him: FWSO - 71
DS - 15
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25888 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida |
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150 | | Posted: 1:31 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 | |
 Booo!
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 20376 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 2:02 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 | |
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 40068 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
Random thoughts
♀ 2959
Member # 2959 | | Posted: 2:30 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 | |
Always always call the cops, so its on record. Now she can claim her side of the truth.
Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.
FWW
Posts: 1671 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Some where in New Jersey |
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 | | Posted: 2:36 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 | |
The thing is normally the police won't respond to private property if there are no injuries. They won't even take a statement over the phone. My paranoid guess is she knows someone in the PD. Bleh.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Posts: 25063 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 2:47 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 | |
A lot of insurance companies are looking for ways to avoid fraud. A police report helps to validate the claim. At least that's what the police on Florida tell me😏
I am relieved you weren't hurt. Is hoping the karma bus pays her a visit out of line?
Hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 6705 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
simplydevastated
♀ 25001
Member # 25001 | | Posted: 2:51 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 | |
Oh that sucks. I'm sorry to hear that, but I'm glad your not hurt. Did you take pictures at the scene?
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
Posts: 6121 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell! |
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 | | Posted: 3:01 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 | |
Yes, I have pictures but that won't prove anything, because she backed off after she hit me. Neither one of us discussed what happened; we just exchanged insurance info. I even lent her a pen  .
I wrote insurance for 25 years; I even supervised a fraud unit. I take this very seriously. My estimation of the accident was that it was a simple accident and fault did not have to be assessed; it could be shared equally. [This message edited by Sad in AZ at 3:02 PM, August 11th (Sunday)]
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Posts: 25063 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona |
yewtree
♀ 16671
Member # 16671 | | Posted: 3:45 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 | |
I'm sorry sad, but I have a feeling NY cop didn't know who he was tangling with!
Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)
Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.
Posts: 4892 | Registered: Oct 2007 |
JanetS
♀ 2766
Member # 2766 | | Posted: 7:48 AM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Is there anyway you can check if there were any security cameras aimed where you were parked????
Posts: 3055 | Registered: Nov 2003 | From: Niagara-on-the-Lake, Canada |
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