FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.
Hugs to you Eranda (((((Eranda)))))
Breaking up sucks. I can see getting out while he was packing his shit and moving out. Makes total sense to me. I wouldn't call it chickenshit, I'd call it self-care.
Try not to project your thoughts into the silence. He isn't you, doesn't think like you, doesn't act like you. Don't put thoughts into the void that are really your thoughts and not his. Let it be. I suggest not overthinking it and just letting it be a mystery. Like, whatever.
What you can learn about this dude is that you are better off without him.
I edit because I always make typos.