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Eranda posted 8/11/2013 12:11 PM

He moved out yesterday. I was a total chickenshit and left while he was here. Just couldn't handle it.

Thankfully it didn't take too long.

What bothers me most is his total silence. It's been all business-y NC from him since Monday. Not even any attempt to talk to me about why he decided to do this, or how he feels about it now. I guess I shouldn't expect that, but WTF is it with guys who don't feel the need to explain their actions??? I hate that, I feel like I could learn something from this but without the info from him I'm stumbling around in the dark.

Freaking pisses me off.

tesla posted 8/11/2013 14:33 PM

((((eranda))))

burnt_toast posted 8/11/2013 15:54 PM

(((Eranda)))

I'm sorry you are going through this.

[This message edited by burnt_toast at 3:54 PM, August 11th (Sunday)]

fraeuken posted 8/11/2013 16:09 PM

(((Eranda))), sorry. Misery loves company. I will join you, total silence here as well after getting dumped out of the blue yesterday, no sweet phone calls, no loving texts - nothing.

I am combating it with deep cleaning and reorganizing my kitchen and the thought of a nice bottle of wine and a good movie tonight.

Hang in there.

Survivor3512 posted 8/11/2013 16:40 PM

(((Eranda)))

[This message edited by Survivor3512 at 4:40 PM, August 11th (Sunday)]

jo2love posted 8/11/2013 19:45 PM

(((Eranda)))

click4it posted 8/11/2013 22:40 PM

(((((eranda)))))

Ugh, I'm sorry.

WTF is it with guys who don't feel the need to explain their actions??? I hate that, I feel like I could learn something from this but without the info from him I'm stumbling around in the dark.

Totally.

I hope at some point he will be willing to say something if you are still ready to hear it at that point.

heartbroken_kk posted 8/11/2013 22:57 PM

Hugs to you Eranda (((((Eranda)))))

Breaking up sucks. I can see getting out while he was packing his shit and moving out. Makes total sense to me. I wouldn't call it chickenshit, I'd call it self-care.

Try not to project your thoughts into the silence. He isn't you, doesn't think like you, doesn't act like you. Don't put thoughts into the void that are really your thoughts and not his. Let it be. I suggest not overthinking it and just letting it be a mystery. Like, whatever.

What you can learn about this dude is that you are better off without him.

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