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User Topic: Interrogatory questions
ArkLaMiss
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Member # 14918
Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a friend who is being dragged through the system by her deadbeat x. He obtained emergency custody by lying and she was not notified. He's paid ZERO cs for 14 years. My question is this: what should her attorney ask in her interrogatories? She's asking for 401k, ira, bank statements, checks, employment history, liens, real property, judgements, work history. Anything else? Help, please!


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

Posts: 1232 | Registered: Jun 2007
stillstrong
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How the heck does someone who hasn't paid CS in 14 years get emergency custody?!
The only thing I can think of is additional income (from renting out a room, etc) My X's Firstwife owned a duplex, which I found out from a quick zillow search, and we found out she had a renter. Made a huge difference in her income.


Me BS 47
Him WS 51
DDay LTA Feb 21, 2006
R until DDay 2EA's 1/31/12 ONS 2/5/12 Broken NC 7/12/12
Moved out 9/12
Legally Separated 3/13


Posts: 848 | Registered: Jul 2012
ArkLaMiss
♀ 14918
Member # 14918
Default  Posted: 3:06 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still, the lawyer representing my friend is my daughter, a brand spanking new attorney. My friend's x is a SOCIAL WORKER! He and the wife are cray. He filed this due to my friend losing her job and having NO money. My daughter is representing my friend pro bono. She's already put in for cs modification, to raise it from $40 a week, which he never paid to begin with. Owes her $30,000 plus co pays. She's filing next for a lump sum judgement on arrearages. Then, filing with DA for criminal complaint for what he back owes.


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

Posts: 1232 | Registered: Jun 2007
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've got no advice, but I'll be holding your friend AND your DD in my thoughts. Sending strength and mojo.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26218 | Registered: Aug 2011
Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How did he pull off having a hearing when she was not properly served?

You might also want to ask for tax filings also.

Cat


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
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