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ifinallyfoundme posted 8/11/2013 15:55 PM

While reading communication H had with OW I noticed too many instances were OW made a serious attempt to imitate my hobbies and special things I would do for him. Have any of you experienced this?

tryingagain74 posted 8/11/2013 15:58 PM

Well, she took over my old life-- SAHM living in my marital home (and in my marital bed as far as I know), going on the same family trips and outings that we used to go on, living in and raising her kids in my community (which is two hours from where she used to live). So, yes-- it looks to me like she's trying to be an inferior reboot of me. Good luck with that, and enjoy the manchild that I was relieved to cast off!

FoolontheHill posted 8/11/2013 16:11 PM

No but OM I the EA imitated/copied things STBXWW did, like going to yoga, eating certain foods, doing power cleanse and even some texting quirks. The fact that SHE IS 42 and he is 71 makes all the more disturbing.

Vulcanized posted 8/11/2013 16:13 PM

She took over being lady of the manse before I even moved out of it.

Beyond that, I have no clue. I don't think she can afford my wardrobe of alot of leather. (My spirit animal is Rob Halford)

tesla posted 8/11/2013 16:14 PM

Oh boy, I don't know. But just the thought of that basically illiterate, white trailer trash, 'names OC after a character on Beverly Hillbillies' stripper whore trying to copy my class, intelligence, and just in general awesomeness leaves me rolling on the floor, dying of laughter.

[This message edited by tesla at 4:14 PM, August 11th (Sunday)]

musiclovingmom posted 8/11/2013 16:19 PM

OW 2 grew her hair out and got it dyed and cut to match mine. So did OW 5 shortly after my H went NC with her. OW 5 is also perusing the same degree I have (though she was doing that before she and my H reconnected). I do know that she was aware of the things we had in common. She pointed them out when she was trying to gain my sympathy after outing their A.

sparkysable posted 8/11/2013 18:55 PM

Well, we had 2 German Shepherds. XWH moved in with her after D-day, and they got a German Shepherd puppy. I find that seriously creepy.

myperfectlife posted 8/11/2013 20:12 PM

The name OW had picked out for "their" (hypothetical) daughter is my son's middle name.
And yes, she knew this.

Jospehine85 posted 8/11/2013 20:44 PM

Yep, started growing her hair out and wearing the same underwear that I wear. Both on WH's prompting.

Basically, anything she suspected WH liked about me she mimiced. Anything he claimed I did/was that he didn't like, she claimed to be the opposite.

OW also imitated WH. His favorite drink in the world is Coke Zero? OMG! hers too!!!!

Ashland13 posted 8/11/2013 20:44 PM

Floozy made pages on the internet and either stole off Nearly Exh's computer or was given all these pictures that were of him and DD-I was cut out of them and some pictures were clearly cropped or messed with.

It still creeps me out and messed up my sense of security, because some were taken by me and in my house or at events in my house. It will be with me for a long time.

Ostrich80 posted 8/12/2013 03:00 AM

Right after DD she would change her fbk profile pic to whatever mine was. If I had a pic in the car, she would, if I had one at the lake, she would. Hers was more of her being a f**king bitch than wanting to be me. I'm sure she thought it was funny in her sic simpleton mind, like a game ..so I blocked her.