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I hate that infidelity is not only tolerated in the media. But its actually glorified and encouraged by these same outlets. So lets take an alternative ending to Ms. Kim's article.

WARNING: THIS IS GOING TO GET GRAPHIC AND GORY. PLEASE STOP NOW IF YOUR NOT IN A GOOD PLACE. IN NO WAY DO I CONDONE OR SUPPORT THIS ACT OF FICTION. YET IT DOES HAPPEN

Mrs. Smith happens to read this article. She wants to feel all empowered and sexy just like how its portrayed on TV. So she sets out to have an affair. She goes to the local watering hole and find Mr. Jones. He is no stranger to infidelity. In fact Jones actually prefers the sexual company of married women. He finds its easier for him to seek out another mans wife as the NSA sex comes with little effort on his part. All Jones has to do is listen to Mrs. Smith complain about how boring and inattentive her husband is. Jones simply has to lie and pretend to be the opposite of Mr. Smith to ensnare his prey. After all its not like Mr. Smith cares as he is working 60+ hours a week to support his family.

So Mrs. Smith and Mr. Jones start having an A. Pretty soon she is all caught up in her fantasy and starts acting out. Now Mr. Smith knows something so wrong and suspects his W is having an A. But in the back of his mind he knows that she loves him and their children and would never do anything to hurt their family. But one night he asks what is wrong and she says nothing. He asks if she is having an A and she naturally assures him that she would never do that. What kind of a person does he think she is ? She is pissed off at his accusations and promptly leaves their bedroom and starts sleeping in the guest room. Mr. Smith feels like shit for asking his W that question and worries that his suspicions will ruin his M. He starts questioning his own behaviors and takes the burden of what's going on as his problem. That how she is behaving must be due to something he has been neglecting or has had no time to accomplish as he works half his life away so Mrs. Smith can be a SAHM.

So Mr. Smith proceeds to try and change himself to make his W happier. Yet whatever he does don't work. His W is basically a stranger to him. As he thinks the problems are his he allows her more freedom. She naturally jumps at the chance to engage her A partner Mr. Jones more often under the guise of going out with the girls. Or any of the million other excuses she uses to get out of the house. Some times passes and the M simply is not getting better and Smith asks he W again what's going on ? She in turn assures him that she just needs some time and space to figure things out. Smith does not like this idea but as he thinks its all his fault he goes along with it. Mrs. Smith and Mr. Jones now ramp up the A. They are taking more risks and their behaviors are just out of control. Rumors and stories start trickling back to Mr. Smith but he ignores them as he thinks his W is trying to find herself. Smith starts to lose weight and does not feel good. He knows something is wrong as his gut is screaming at him. But his heart tells him everything is fine. That he has spoken to his W and she has assured him that she is not cheating on him.

One day at work Mr. Smith is not feeling too good. His long time employer has noticed he does not look to good and has not been acting like his usual self. He sends him home and instructs Smith to take a few days off to get himself together. Smith does not like this but he has no choice. So he makes the best of it and proceeds home to rest and figure out what to do next. Upon arrival at his house Smith see a strange car in his driveway. He figures his W must have a friend over or something like that. He opens the door and spies an open bottle of wine with 2 glasses beside it. This is unusual as its only 11:00 am. In a short time he hears strange noises coming from his bedroom. He naturally fears that something harmful is happening to his W and goes to the closet in the hallway. He grabs the .45 Colt he keeps in there for his family's protection and loads the clip and chambers a round. As he slowly starts up the stairs the sounds are getting louder. They are the unmistakable sounds of sex. His heart pumping and a million thoughts going through his mind he bursts into the room and finds his W having passionate sex with Mr. Jones in his house, in the bed his children were conceived on. In a millisecond he finally figures out what has been wrong. He is confused, hurt and not thinking straight. He raises the .45 up and before Jones can say a word he places 2 rounds into him. Jones falls off of his mistress and hits the floor dead. Mrs. Smith now hysterical tries to convince her H that what he just saw is not what's been going on. That's its all a misunderstand and can explain. But Smith knows what he saw and raises up the Colt another time and shoots his W as well. She drops back onto the bed she was just seconds before engaged in passionate sex on. She gurgles a short few words that Smith does not understand and dies. Mr. Smith now realizes the scope of what just happened and panics. He runs downstairs and sits on his couch still clutching the pistol he just shot and killed his W and her lover with. Knowing that life as he knows it is over he raises the pistol to his head and pulls the trigger. Thus ending this sad and tragic story.

Now like Ms. Kim's story this is fiction as well. But it shows the other side of infidelity. The one that the mass media does not glorify and promote. But it can and does happen. And the saddest part is that all of it could be avoided. Affairs are not so sexy or glamorous when things like this happen. Perhaps Ms. Kim should think about these scenarios as well.

I hate that infidelity is not only tolerated in the media. But its actually glorified and encouraged by these same outlets. So lets take an alternative ending to Ms. Kim's article.

[bold]WARNING: THIS IS GOING TO GET GRAPHIC AND GORY. PLEASE STOP NOW IF YOUR NOT IN A GOOD PLACE. IN NO WAY DO I CONDONE OR SUPPORT THIS ACT OF FICTION. YET IT DOES HAPPEN

[italic]Mrs. Smith happens to read this article. She wants to feel all empowered and sexy just like how its portrayed on TV. So she sets out to have an affair. She goes to the local watering hole and find Mr. Jones. He is no stranger to infidelity. In fact Jones actually prefers the sexual company of married women. He finds its easier for him to seek out another mans wife as the NSA sex comes with little effort on his part. All Jones has to do is listen to Mrs. Smith complain about how boring and inattentive her husband is. Jones simply has to lie and pretend to be the opposite of Mr. Smith to ensnare his prey. After all its not like Mr. Smith cares as he is working 60+ hours a week to support his family.

Now like Ms. Kim's story this is fiction as well. But it shows the other side of infidelity. The one that the mass media does not glorify and promote. But it can and does happen. And the saddest part is that all of it could be avoided.  Affairs are not so sexy or glamorous when things like this happen. Perhaps Ms. Kim should think about these scenarios as well.  [/italic]