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Reconciliation :
A Poem from my fWH

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 Undone1 (original poster member #37683) posted at 11:40 PM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013

For my anniversary, my fWH wrote me a poem. He has always bought me those stupid cards that are meant to be funny and I always wanted what was in his heart.

I wanted to share it because it's such a departure from what he has ever done for me:

I love your smile, your laugh

The twinkle in your eye

Your quirkiness

I love your strength, your resolve

The ability to make so much happen

Your capacity

I love your caring, your compassion

Champion of the underdog

Your soul

I love your beauty, your body

The way you fill up a room

Your style

I love your instincts as a mother

At times tender, at times tough

Your nurture

I love you as a teacher

Always helping others to learn and grow

Your wisdom

I love you as a partner

In my corner, pushing me to be better

Your friendship

I love you as a wife and lover

Covering me with care, tenderness and kisses

Your love

Undone1
Married 10+ years to my high school sweetheart
DDAY 10/27/12
Me 55
WH 55
Blended Family: 25, 21, and 20
Married 10 years
"The Universe Unfolds as it Should"

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AML04 ( member #39682) posted at 12:24 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

That is beautiful.

Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 1:41 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"

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girlsbird ( member #30877) posted at 2:48 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

Wonderful

D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

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HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 5:59 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled

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TxsT ( member #39996) posted at 6:35 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

What a wonderful thing he has done for you.

Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!

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struggling3 ( member #34671) posted at 4:59 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

Love it....boy did that come straight from his heart. <3

Me - BS 58
H - WS 60/very remorseful and supportive

discovered 4 month long EA
R - slow and steady but very optimistic

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hopefullromantic ( member #16652) posted at 5:07 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

Envious

It's not really a fairy tale 'til the witch is deposed and a few dragons are slain

Reconciled

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StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 5:36 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

Wow! Such words I would long to hear....

Good for you!

Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R

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PinkJeepLady ( member #37575) posted at 5:37 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

How sincere and genuine! Have you thought of framing it, you should look at it everyday!

Thanks for sharing!

Me: BW Him: FWH
DDay June 1st 2012
cheated with prostitutes overseas
Reconciled - thought so, but now divorcing

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confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 5:40 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

Very nice. My WH has written me similar poems and letters...I just now have trouble believing them/him.

BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10



..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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soconfusednow ( member #40078) posted at 6:09 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

I'm happy for you! and so jealous............maybe someday?........hopeful

D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50's WH 50's
NC-several, last broken NC 7/2013 (?)
Married 30+ years, 2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?

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