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Topic: Need good thoughts tomorrow
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brkn_heartd
♀ 30396
Member # 30396 |  Posted: 7:49 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 |     |
I need good thoughts and prayers tomorrow (if you pray). One of my goals before the A was to get my doctorate degree in nursing. After his A, my drive to get it went out the window. I could barely breath, much less think of returning to school. Two years ago, things feel into place and I started back to school very quickly. Tomorrow I defend my project. If I am successful tomorrow I have accomplished my goal and will be Dr. brkn_heartd.
I am excited because the A did not keep this from me. My H has been VERY supportive with school and helping me heal from the A. I was able to overcome the challenges of the A/school and get finished. Very few people know of the A so they do not know the additional struggles I have had during school.
But I am almost FINISHED!  [This message edited by brkn_heartd at 9:33 PM, August 11th (Sunday)]
Me-51 BS
Him 58-WS
Married 31 yrs, together 34
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10
Posts: 1809 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US |
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622 | | Posted: 7:52 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 | |
clear thoughts and mojo headed your way!!
You should be proud!!
Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Posts: 6044 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place |
ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ 18449
Member # 18449 | | Posted: 8:38 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 | |
Sending positive thoughts for you tomorrow!
Posts: 11814 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
click4it
♀ 209
Member # 209 | | Posted: 10:19 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 | |
WAY TO GO! I see a new Dr. in the house. sending tons of mojo you way, you can do it!!
Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25649 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 10:22 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 | |
Wow, honey!!! Sending you everything I've got for tomorrow. Knock them dead.
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28179 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
dazdandconfuzed
11692
Member # 11692 | | Posted: 10:22 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013 | |
Lots of mojo coming your way, and congrats, too!!!
Me - BW
Him - WH
Posts: 6621 | Registered: Aug 2006 | From: Massachusetts |
ItsaClimb
♀ 37107
Member # 37107 | | Posted: 5:24 AM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Wow! Sending good thoughts your way!
BS 47
Together 29 yrs, M 26 years
2 daughters 25yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 19yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later
Posts: 1118 | Registered: Oct 2012 |
brkn_heartd
♀ 30396
Member # 30396 | | Posted: 5:55 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Thank you for your support and good thoughts today. I needed them today!
Thanks,
Dr. Brkn_Heartd!
Me-51 BS
Him 58-WS
Married 31 yrs, together 34
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10
Posts: 1809 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US |
Pentup
♀ 20563
Member # 20563 |  Posted: 6:14 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Congratulations Doctor!!!
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
Posts: 6860 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz |
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622 | | Posted: 7:19 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Whooooooo!!! Hooooooooo!!!!!
Seems a little undignified for a doctor... Congratulations, Doctor.
Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Posts: 6044 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 7:39 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Posts: 38199 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 7:43 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
WOOOOO HOOOOO!!!! Congratulations and WELL DONE!
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28179 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
scaredyKat
♀ 25560
Member # 25560 | | Posted: 8:08 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Great job! We are all Cyber proud of you!
Me-BS-60
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!
Posts: 4071 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head |
jrc1963
♀ 26531
Member # 26531 | | Posted: 8:21 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Way to Go!!!
Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25017 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida |
brkn_heartd
♀ 30396
Member # 30396 | | Posted: 10:02 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Thank you to everyone. In all honesty many times I would waiver in a lot of areas of my life (school included) and the support from this website kept me going. I appreciate the support over the last three years! It certainly helped me from letting the A win.
Me-51 BS
Him 58-WS
Married 31 yrs, together 34
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10
Posts: 1809 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US |
meaniemouse
♀ 10798
Member # 10798 | | Posted: 10:32 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
CONGRATULATIONS! As someone who was in the middle of the same process during my ex's many affairs let me say, "WHOO HOO" 
Tell me--after you were finished defending did they send you out of the room and then when you came back in were they all smiling like their faces would break and saying "Congratulations Dr.brkn_heartd?????"
Whatever they said--again
CONGRATULATIONS!! I know what a huge accomplishment this is! [This message edited by meaniemouse at 10:33 PM, August 12th (Monday)]
Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James
Posts: 2174 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest |
NoTriangles
♀ 35985
Member # 35985 | | Posted: 10:39 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
WOW!!
What a huge accomplishment!!
Congrats, Dr B!!
Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.
Posts: 1252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness |
solus sto
♀ 30989
Member # 30989 | | Posted: 5:51 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Hooray! Congratulations, Doctor.
The dean of my nursing school strongly believed that even bedside nurses should be as educated as the physicians who care for patients. He succeeded in ensuring that the BSN was the lowest level of prep for nurses at that institution; they are just now starting to require Masters prep for bedside nurses. There were huge obstacles to this--namely, it's kind of hard to convince someone remunerated so very much less than a physician to invest in a similar education. But with the changes that are rolling out, I think the nurse's role is going to expand even more. (And they DO make it financially worthwhile.)
I am so glad you have earned your doctorate. You will go far.
(I wish I had done this long ago.)
BS-me, 53
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke
Posts: 9452 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest |
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