Member # 39169
| Posted: 7:56 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013|
Ive heard the expression to describe sex after the affair as "two in the bed, three in the head". I don't even know what up I'm up against though. There were so many. And they are all there....thinner, curvier, younger, older, dumber, smarter, any race, anyone with an x chromosome. HB ended awhile back and now I can't bear the idea of sex because I feel like I'm just a piece of a$$. I can't even stand compliments from men or women other than my H, and I REALLY can't stand compliments from him. That (unlogical) voice just screams "NO!!! You are not worth the compliment! EVERYONE is better than you". Ugh, ugh, ugh, getting cheated on SUCKS.
40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Time is a great healer but a terrible beautician.
Posts: 797 | Registered: May 2013
Member # 34353
| Posted: 10:36 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013|
I just wanted you to know you have been heard and yes getting cheated on sucks the big one.
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile
Posts: 1769 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
Member # 34827
| Posted: 3:45 AM, August 12th (Monday), 2013|
It changes everything forever. Not that you can't repair but it will never be the same..hopefully a new normal that you can live with if your lucky. Yes cheating sucks..nothing good about it, mot one damn thing. Cheaters suck too.
Been with him over half my life
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Posts: 5728 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest