I haven't been on in the last few days cuz my DD and I went camping with some friends...but I am happy to say that my BH joined us on Friday evening and stayed with us all Saturday before heading home to go to work. My DD was very excited when daddy showed up (we wanted to surprise her) and it felt good being on vacation together like a normal family.
That being said, BH is still not ready to let me move back home and we are still in limbo land. I have been applying for a new job and have my first interview on Tuesday!!
Since I will be at a new job we will have to pay for childcare. I am hoping once I have a new job I will be making more money, but am concerned about how I will pay for childcare on top of all my other bills.
My question is this...since my BH doesn't seem like he will be letting me home anytime soon, should I start thinking about trying to get some child support from him? And should I actually go through the court, or just talk to him and see if we can come up with our own agreement?
I am worried about what this step may do for R, but at the same time don't even feel like we are in R so maybe it doesn't matter anyway....just wondering what others think. Thanks!