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Topic: burn OW love letters together?

soconfusednow
♀ 40078
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Posted: 11:58 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013

I found out my WS has things OW gave him. I want to ask him to let me read them, discuss any questions I have, and burn them with me. I'm not sure if it's a good or bad idea. Any thoughts?

D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50's WH 50's
NC-several, last broken NC 7/2013 (?)
Married 30+ years, 2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?

Posts: 483 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA

gonnabe2016
♀ 34823
Member # 34823

Posted: 12:02 AM, August 12th (Monday), 2013

Sounds like a good plan to me...

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

Posts: 9187 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest

StrongerOne
♀ 36915
Member # 36915

Posted: 12:07 AM, August 12th (Monday), 2013

Burn, baby, burn!

DDay Feb 2011.
In R.

Posts: 1020 | Registered: Sep 2012

Spelljean
♀ 35624
Member # 35624

Posted: 12:42 AM, August 12th (Monday), 2013

Good to read them.

I kept OWs letters, but i need the evidence!

WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 1033 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California

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