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burn OW love letters together?

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 soconfusednow (original poster member #40078) posted at 5:58 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

I found out my WS has things OW gave him. I want to ask him to let me read them, discuss any questions I have, and burn them with me. I'm not sure if it's a good or bad idea. Any thoughts?

D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50's WH 50's
NC-several, last broken NC 7/2013 (?)
Married 30+ years, 2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?

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gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 6:02 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

Sounds like a good plan to me...

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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StrongerOne ( member #36915) posted at 6:07 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

Burn, baby, burn!

DDay Feb 2011.
In R.

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Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 6:42 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

Good to read them.

I kept OWs letters, but i need the evidence!

WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

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