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UndecidedinMA posted 8/12/2013 09:49 AM

So the OWxWW sends a letter, she can no longer get through on another device. We have since moved so it was forwarded from the old address. Does she get notified of new address?

The letter was all very sweet and made me sick saying she hopes the old relationships can someday be repaired( YEAH RIGHT BITCH). The pretext was informing him that their son & his POS abusive wife are expecting a baby in Sept. We knew this since FWS is in contact with her parents(she is not).

I just want to respond with a new NC letter & a few other thoughts. He just wants to stay crickets.

mrcpu posted 8/12/2013 10:07 AM

Firstly, I'm pretty sure they don't get any notice of the redirection. They don't up here in Canada anyway.

Secondly, I'm sorry... "OWxWW" ?

I'd do up a nice, professional sounding, non-emotional, f-off letter and send it with no return address.

authenticnow posted 8/12/2013 10:08 AM

UndecidedinMA,

Please follow the Reconciliation Forum guidelines.


A wonderful place to share your struggles, success stories and triggers while trying to reconcile.It's a long road, but you can do it! There is to be no venting about or name calling the OP in this forum.

Thank you.

Rebreather posted 8/12/2013 10:09 AM

crickets!!!

Knowing posted 8/12/2013 10:23 AM

DDay is a long way off for you. Crickets is the best way to go.

UndecidedinMA posted 8/12/2013 10:38 AM

OWxWW = She is the Other Woman but she is also his ex-wife who was a Wayward, you could add a few more since she was also a drug/sex addict, as well as totally narcissistic.

HurtsBad posted 8/12/2013 10:44 AM

I vote for crickets. There is nothing to be gained by replying.

If she is unable to contact you any other way, and she gets no reply to this letter, she might give up.

Best of luck in your continuing healing.

sisoon posted 8/12/2013 10:49 AM

NC all the way - anything you send can be an excuse for further contact, if that's what she wants.

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