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NoTriangles posted 8/12/2013 13:28 PM

I moved within 3 months of separation. The house that we had lived in together and had so many fun times in, felt haunted and half empty. I think I might have actually lost my mind if I had stayed living there. It was just too much.

I rented it for the past two years while the market recovered and put it up for sale in June.

Today I am under contract with an Aug 30 closing date!!!

I've had a couple of good cries while I've been over there keeping it clean and ready for showings, but now I am just ready to be DONE!! I'm not even feeling melancholy. It just feels like "It's time".

That chapter of my life is over. Or it will be in another three weeks.

Onward and upward!

Deeply Scared posted 8/12/2013 13:30 PM

That's great news!! Congratulations on turning the page and moving onto the next chapter in your life

gma56 posted 8/12/2013 13:36 PM

Congrats !

WooHoo ! This is huge !

nowiknow23 posted 8/12/2013 13:38 PM

YAY!!!!!

MovingUpward posted 8/12/2013 15:18 PM

Congrats NT

Amazonia posted 8/12/2013 15:21 PM

Congrats!

burnt_toast posted 8/12/2013 15:23 PM

Awesome! So glad for you!

FaithFool posted 8/12/2013 16:28 PM

Been there, done that, it feels great when it's DONE.

259 posted 8/12/2013 16:47 PM

that's terrific, yay,

must be my turn soon.....

cayc posted 8/12/2013 17:09 PM

Awesome, so glad to hear this!

kernel posted 8/12/2013 17:16 PM

Great news - congrats!

Kajem posted 8/12/2013 21:42 PM

Congrats

PurpleRose posted 8/12/2013 22:21 PM

Congrats!! What a relief that is!

I was in the same position... Moved to a beautiful new house and listed our martital home in June. We went under contract about 10 days ago (yeah!) but today the buyers backed out. :(

So bummed.

NoTriangles posted 8/12/2013 22:34 PM

Thank you all for the support. As I said, I am feeling far more release than sadness. It's a gate through which I know I must pass and there will be more healing on the other side.

GAH, PR!! That stinks!! I hope you find a new and SOLID buyer very soon!

House-selling/healing mojo to all of us........

PurpleRose posted 8/12/2013 22:54 PM

Thanks, I have no idea what will happen since the D/mediation was all based on this house being sold already. I can't imagine we'd have to do it all over again... Right??

CS was recalc'd- spousal was determined- everything based on the damn house. Ugh.

Bravenewgirl posted 8/13/2013 04:55 AM

Wooooohooooooo!

Huge congrats on another massive step in your NB.

Lets drink tee many martoonis to celurburate...hic!

((((((((((NT))))))))))

tesla posted 8/13/2013 11:13 AM

Yay!