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NoTriangles (original poster member #35985) posted at 7:28 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
I moved within 3 months of separation. The house that we had lived in together and had so many fun times in, felt haunted and half empty. I think I might have actually lost my mind if I had stayed living there. It was just too much.
I rented it for the past two years while the market recovered and put it up for sale in June.
Today I am under contract with an Aug 30 closing date!!!
I've had a couple of good cries while I've been over there keeping it clean and ready for showings, but now I am just ready to be DONE!! I'm not even feeling melancholy. It just feels like "It's time".
That chapter of my life is over. Or it will be in another three weeks.
Onward and upward!
Me: Finding my SunlightHim: Traitor in my FoxholeLet go or get dragged.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 7:30 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
That's great news!! Congratulations on turning the page and moving onto the next chapter in your life 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 7:36 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Congrats !
WooHoo ! This is huge !
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 7:38 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
YAY!!!!!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 9:18 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Congrats NT
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 9:21 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Congrats!
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
burnt_toast ( member #16891) posted at 9:23 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Awesome! So glad for you!
I may have not gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
- Douglas Adams
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 10:28 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Been there, done that, it feels great when it's DONE.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
259 ( member #22860) posted at 10:47 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
that's terrific, yay,
must be my turn soon.....
Me = FBS
Him = gone
things that happen in my life do not define who I am. I get to choose to be the best I can be, for me. cause I'm worth it.
cayc ( member #21964) posted at 11:09 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Awesome, so glad to hear this!
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 11:16 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:42 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 4:21 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
Congrats!! What a relief that is!
I was in the same position... Moved to a beautiful new house and listed our martital home in June. We went under contract about 10 days ago (yeah!) but today the buyers backed out. :(
So bummed.
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
NoTriangles (original poster member #35985) posted at 4:34 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
Thank you all for the support. As I said, I am feeling far more release than sadness. It's a gate through which I know I must pass and there will be more healing on the other side.
GAH, PR!! That stinks!! I hope you find a new and SOLID buyer very soon!
House-selling/healing mojo to all of us........
Me: Finding my SunlightHim: Traitor in my FoxholeLet go or get dragged.
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 4:54 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
Thanks, I have no idea what will happen since the D/mediation was all based on this house being sold already. I can't imagine we'd have to do it all over again... Right?? 
CS was recalc'd- spousal was determined- everything based on the damn house. Ugh.
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
Bravenewgirl ( member #36267) posted at 10:55 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
Wooooohooooooo!
Huge congrats on another massive step in your NB.
Lets drink tee many martoonis to celurburate...hic!
((((((((((NT))))))))))
Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 5:13 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013
Yay!
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
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