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Topic: Sold! WooHoo!!
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NoTriangles
♀ 35985
Member # 35985 |  Posted: 1:28 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 |     |
I moved within 3 months of separation. The house that we had lived in together and had so many fun times in, felt haunted and half empty. I think I might have actually lost my mind if I had stayed living there. It was just too much.
I rented it for the past two years while the market recovered and put it up for sale in June.
Today I am under contract with an Aug 30 closing date!!!
I've had a couple of good cries while I've been over there keeping it clean and ready for showings, but now I am just ready to be DONE!! I'm not even feeling melancholy. It just feels like "It's time".
That chapter of my life is over. Or it will be in another three weeks.
Onward and upward!
Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.
Posts: 1252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness |
Deeply Scared
♀ 2
Member # 2 | | Posted: 1:30 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
That's great news!! Congratulations on turning the page and moving onto the next chapter in your life 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Posts: 200836 | Registered: May 2002 |
gma56
♀ 19595
Member # 19595 | | Posted: 1:36 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Congrats !
WooHoo ! This is huge !
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Posts: 20395 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be.. |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 1:38 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
YAY!!!!!
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28199 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 | | Posted: 3:18 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Congrats NT
AKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 53958 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation |
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810 | | Posted: 3:21 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Congrats!
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Posts: 14043 | Registered: Jul 2011 |
burnt_toast
♀ 16891
Member # 16891 | | Posted: 3:23 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Awesome! So glad for you!
I may have not gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
- Douglas Adams
Posts: 4963 | Registered: Nov 2007 |
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150 | | Posted: 4:28 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Been there, done that, it feels great when it's DONE.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 18094 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada |
259
♀ 22860
Member # 22860 | | Posted: 4:47 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
that's terrific, yay,
must be my turn soon.....
Me = FBS
Him = gone
things that happen in my life do not define who I am. I get to choose to be the best I can be, for me. cause I'm worth it.
Posts: 286 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: my happy place (most of the time) |
cayc
♀ 21964
Member # 21964 | | Posted: 5:09 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Awesome, so glad to hear this!
"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." - Louisa May Alcott
Posts: 3287 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico |
kernel
♀ 27035
Member # 27035 | | Posted: 5:16 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Great news - congrats!
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Posts: 5337 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 9:42 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 6024 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
PurpleRose
♀ 33129
Member # 33129 | | Posted: 10:21 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Congrats!! What a relief that is!
I was in the same position... Moved to a beautiful new house and listed our martital home in June. We went under contract about 10 days ago (yeah!) but today the buyers backed out. :(
So bummed.
divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky
Posts: 3633 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville |
NoTriangles
♀ 35985
Member # 35985 | | Posted: 10:34 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Thank you all for the support. As I said, I am feeling far more release than sadness. It's a gate through which I know I must pass and there will be more healing on the other side.
GAH, PR!! That stinks!! I hope you find a new and SOLID buyer very soon!
House-selling/healing mojo to all of us........
Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.
Posts: 1252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness |
PurpleRose
♀ 33129
Member # 33129 | | Posted: 10:54 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013 | |
Thanks, I have no idea what will happen since the D/mediation was all based on this house being sold already. I can't imagine we'd have to do it all over again... Right?? 
CS was recalc'd- spousal was determined- everything based on the damn house. Ugh.
divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky
Posts: 3633 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville |
Bravenewgirl
♀ 36267
Member # 36267 | | Posted: 4:55 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Wooooohooooooo!
Huge congrats on another massive step in your NB.
Lets drink tee many martoonis to celurburate...hic!
((((((((((NT))))))))))
Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty
Posts: 661 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Canada |
tesla
♀ 34697
Member # 34697 | | Posted: 11:13 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Yay!
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Posts: 4956 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
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