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ifinallyfoundme posted 8/12/2013 15:54 PM

Today is a computer work day and I can see some of the frustration, so I'd like to start a positive thread.

My H is an old fashioned guy and I can say I love it. I love his fuddy duddiness He is taller than me by a good 7 inches and I love being hugged and smothered by him. I love his deep voice and his southern gentlemanly ways. I love that he is a good provider, focused, and goofy all at the same time.
We have a life time good memories and struggles, and he has taken on the challenges of life.

What do you like about your beau.

Oh and sex is always good!

notquiteoverit posted 8/12/2013 15:59 PM

He is generally a decent, kind, compassionate guy. He is kind to animals and the disadvanted. During the affair, he was none of those things. He turned into a self-entitled asshole who was critical of everyone. I am glad that guy is gone and my WS is back to who he was before.

TxsT posted 8/12/2013 16:14 PM

I love how my husband can make anyone feel special. It is a true gift. He is compassionate and kind, gentle. I love the twinkle in his eye when he looks deep into mine (slowly it is coming back)

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ifinallyfoundme posted 8/12/2013 16:17 PM

I've also had a lot of 'first times' with my H. One of my most fun times was riding in the back of a pickup truck in an exotic location watching a herd of wild animals. Exhilarating!

LA44 posted 8/12/2013 16:23 PM

Great initiative to be positive iffm!

My H is kind through and through. He genuinely cares about people.

I love his salt and pepper hair too which is getting saltier every day!

krazy8516 posted 8/12/2013 16:30 PM

My H is a great cuddler.

This might have been ruined for me if his EA had been a PA. But I know that she never got to cuddle with him, and I'm hoping that he'll never cuddle with anyone but me....

Ostrich80 posted 8/12/2013 16:32 PM

Well I'm not sure if I'm supposed to post here since we are not in R but there are some things I love about him.
He has a wonderful sense of humor, he's really funny.
He works his ass off to.provide for his family.
He's an animal lover like myself and will literally kiss our dogs on the mouth.
Although hes done some really shitty things re: our kids...I know he loves them and is trying to repair the damage he's done. He's come a long way from the asshole he was a while back.
I'm not going to say anything negative as this is a positive thread.
I mean most of these ws aren't monsters right? Or we wouldn't hang
on for so long

ifinallyfoundme posted 8/12/2013 16:39 PM

This thread is for EVERYONE!

nestlee posted 8/12/2013 16:41 PM

My H is a wonderful father. Great provider. But one hell of a shitty husband.

ifinallyfoundme posted 8/12/2013 16:46 PM

My H is a wonderful father. Great provider.

I know but focus on this, here is your start.

hobbeskat posted 8/12/2013 16:58 PM

He's a feeling creature. He feels things deeply. He's funny. He's secretly a bit of a homebody. He has a strong social conscience. He does little things for me he'd know I'd like. And (now) he apologises and owns up when he's wrong or when he's acted badly. He's an individual and he doesn't care what people think of him. He's a great kisser and affectionate. He's surprised me with how he's handled R. He's stupidly soppy over our cats.

(And he's pretty hot).

[This message edited by hobbeskat at 5:01 PM, August 12th (Monday)]