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Positive things you love about your WS

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 ifinallyfoundme (original poster member #39523) posted at 9:54 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

Today is a computer work day and I can see some of the frustration, so I'd like to start a positive thread.

My H is an old fashioned guy and I can say I love it. I love his fuddy duddiness He is taller than me by a good 7 inches and I love being hugged and smothered by him. I love his deep voice and his southern gentlemanly ways. I love that he is a good provider, focused, and goofy all at the same time.

We have a life time good memories and struggles, and he has taken on the challenges of life.

What do you like about your beau.

Oh and sex is always good!

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notquiteoverit ( member #32919) posted at 9:59 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

He is generally a decent, kind, compassionate guy. He is kind to animals and the disadvanted. During the affair, he was none of those things. He turned into a self-entitled asshole who was critical of everyone. I am glad that guy is gone and my WS is back to who he was before.

Me - BS 50
Him - WS 49
SOW - 52 destitute loser
D-day 1/28/11

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TxsT ( member #39996) posted at 10:14 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

I love how my husband can make anyone feel special. It is a true gift. He is compassionate and kind, gentle. I love the twinkle in his eye when he looks deep into mine (slowly it is coming back)

T

Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!

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 ifinallyfoundme (original poster member #39523) posted at 10:17 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

I've also had a lot of 'first times' with my H. One of my most fun times was riding in the back of a pickup truck in an exotic location watching a herd of wild animals. Exhilarating!

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LA44 ( member #38384) posted at 10:23 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

Great initiative to be positive iffm!

My H is kind through and through. He genuinely cares about people.

I love his salt and pepper hair too which is getting saltier every day!

Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

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krazy8516 ( member #40076) posted at 10:30 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

My H is a great cuddler.

This might have been ruined for me if his EA had been a PA. But I know that she never got to cuddle with him, and I'm hoping that he'll never cuddle with anyone but me....

me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."

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Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 10:32 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

Well I'm not sure if I'm supposed to post here since we are not in R but there are some things I love about him.

He has a wonderful sense of humor, he's really funny.

He works his ass off to.provide for his family.

He's an animal lover like myself and will literally kiss our dogs on the mouth.

Although hes done some really shitty things re: our kids...I know he loves them and is trying to repair the damage he's done. He's come a long way from the asshole he was a while back.

I'm not going to say anything negative as this is a positive thread.

I mean most of these ws aren't monsters right? Or we wouldn't hang

on for so long

BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

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 ifinallyfoundme (original poster member #39523) posted at 10:39 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

This thread is for EVERYONE!

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nestlee ( member #39871) posted at 10:41 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

My H is a wonderful father. Great provider. But one hell of a shitty husband.

A woman needs a man..Like a fish needs a Bycicle.

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 ifinallyfoundme (original poster member #39523) posted at 10:46 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

My H is a wonderful father. Great provider.

I know but focus on this, here is your start.

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hobbeskat ( member #38805) posted at 10:58 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

He's a feeling creature. He feels things deeply. He's funny. He's secretly a bit of a homebody. He has a strong social conscience. He does little things for me he'd know I'd like. And (now) he apologises and owns up when he's wrong or when he's acted badly. He's an individual and he doesn't care what people think of him. He's a great kisser and affectionate. He's surprised me with how he's handled R. He's stupidly soppy over our cats.

(And he's pretty hot).

[This message edited by hobbeskat at 5:01 PM, August 12th (Monday)]

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