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Topic: The 180

StillLivin
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Posted: 6:20 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013

I keep reading about the 180. What is the 180. It's referred to in many posts but I cannot find the original thread.

I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2644 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ

MovingUpward
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Posted: 6:22 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013

The 180 is a way to help you heal by removing yourself for a spouse that is gaslighting or blameshifting or causing confusion to the situation to keep your emotions on full throttle.

You can read about it here

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11

AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

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Deeply Scared
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Posted: 6:22 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013

Thanks Moo!!

[This message edited by SI Staff at 6:22 PM, August 12th (Monday)]

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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MissesJai
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Posted: 6:22 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11

FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 6058 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....

StillLivin
♀ 40229
Member # 40229

Posted: 12:58 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013

Thank you MovingUpward!!!!
I'll check out the article. Sounds like what I'm already doing. Maybe it will give me the strength to continue instead of caving in.
I love this man with all my heart, but I'm learning to love myself more and I've always loved God most.
Again, thank you!!!

I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2644 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ

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