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karmahappens posted 8/12/2013 18:30 PM

I only found SI about a year and a half ago. I was almost 4.5 years past dday.

As much as my H and I had R'd I still struggled with my feelings for the OW and my rage/hate for the friend I thought I knew.

Because of the collective wisdom here I was able to put her behind me and walk away from the negative energy I let control my life, for that, I will be forever grateful.

I think it is time for me to go, and close this chapter of my life. The A isn't in my life on a daily basis anymore and I think I should move on and begin to focus my energy in another direction. It's hard to let go of something that has brought such enormous comfort.

I can't even begin to name the people that have helped me over the last 18 months. The stories and help everyone offers, not just A related but life and BTDT kind of insight. I don't think I will ever find a spot so safe IRL.

Thanks to the many hands that run and keep this site safe for everyone.

It's a long road, one I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. I pray everyone finds their own way out to a happier, healthier place.

Be good to you, and Thank you.

A special thanks to AN, for your wisdom and support in the oddly parallel lives we seem to lead. (((hugs)))

Dee

stronger08 posted 8/12/2013 18:42 PM

Best of luck Dee. Check in from time to time and let us know how you are doing.

Rebreather posted 8/12/2013 18:59 PM

Good luck to you. I've learned much from you.

authenticnow posted 8/12/2013 19:59 PM

I'll miss you here and the wonderful support you give to others.

But, I do understand, and I'm glad you are at a place of peace.

meplusfour posted 8/12/2013 20:35 PM

Best to you Dee. Your quote at the bottom of your signature resonates with me. I remember reading it in the early days following my D-Day after your posts and being thankful that I had found this site with so many wise people who were willing to help. Thank you.

somanyyears posted 8/12/2013 21:01 PM

.. karmahappens!!??

hey,... hockey season isn't that far off!!!

..maybe you can drop by for a comment or two!!

GO Leafs GO...

..ps. ...glad to hear you are in a good place..

smy

sisoon posted 8/12/2013 21:09 PM

Neat. Best wishes for the future.

karmahappens posted 8/12/2013 21:13 PM

Thanks guys :)

And SMY...I am in a good place A wise, but have some things I need to deal with that are just life related, so I need to take care of things.

But don't worry, as soon as the Bruins kick the Leaf's asses...I will be here to taunt you.

Take care

AFrayedKnot posted 8/12/2013 21:35 PM

Thank you so much for all of your inspiring wisdom. Your words and your hope helped me through some of my darkest times. I will always be grateful.

All the best to you on your journey.