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 imagoodwitch (original poster member #23375) posted at 1:54 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013

Our anniversaries are this week.

25 years since the day we met, today.

24 year wedding anniversary in 7 days.

We don't live together, it will be 6 years at the end of Septmber since he left for the first time, always job related.

Every night, on the phone he says I love you and I miss you, I reply, I know.

Last night I emailed him asking him when living apart became acceptable, he says he loves me and misses me wtf?

Today, I got an anniversary card in the mail.

All loving, marrying you was the best decision ever, you complete me, you know me better than anyone, blah, blah, blah.

I wasn't and am not planning on sending him a card, I don't want to celebrate, celebrate what? It's not a marriage, not worth celebrating.

Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess

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devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 2:26 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013

(((hugs))) goodwitch. Keep your chin up.

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

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simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 2:30 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013

I'm sorry ima (((hugs)))

I hear you about the not wanting to celebrate your wedding anniversary. I feel the same way, what's there to celebrate?

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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