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User Topic: My WH is an ass
letitout
♀ 38288
Member # 38288
Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He just is. No explanation necessary.


BW 57, WH 66, 19 yo twins
Married 28 years
2 years of $$$$$$ prostitutes.

Posts: 288 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: CO
Sparkles
♀ 39901
Member # 39901
Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a coincidence! So is mine!

Posts: 138 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: NW
kernel
♀ 27035
Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does that about cover it?

[This message edited by kernel at 9:26 PM, August 12th (Monday)]


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
kernel
♀ 27035
Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
PurpleRose
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Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm pretty sure it's a prerequisite to becoming a WH. They go through AssHat101 and eventually graduate to Fuckery and The Spouses who Fall For It as part of their indoctrination into Unicorn Skittle Land.


divorced the Dooosh 8/13
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3735 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
TS68
♀ 40211
Member # 40211
Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They all are. I swear i am really starting to question everything and everyone. How have I always been so naive?!!!


“One concrete way in which we all landscape our sanity is by having our experience of reality confirmed by others. When our experience of reality is disconfirmed by others, our confidence in our own sanity can be undermined.” ~Graeme Galton

Posts: 1248 | Registered: Aug 2013
letitout
♀ 38288
Member # 38288
Default  Posted: 6:46 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it guys, Your responses made my day and I needed it badley. Thanks for the laughs!


BW 57, WH 66, 19 yo twins
Married 28 years
2 years of $$$$$$ prostitutes.

Posts: 288 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: CO
41andthankful
♀ 38650
Member # 38650
Default  Posted: 6:53 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Haha too funny. But somewhere there is a donkey who is offended (((donkey))). Have a good day all I needed this laugh.

Posts: 247 | Registered: Mar 2013
kiki1
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Member # 37184
Default  Posted: 7:04 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((letitout)))

Oh, I hear you on this one!!!

Thanks all,

Needed this today.

You all have a great and glorious day!!!


Posts: 925 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: new york
cancuncrushed
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Member # 28156
Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


a trigger yesterday

Posts: 2107 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: athome
pmal64
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Member # 13551
Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

in the throws of all the crap around DDay, I called my (then)WH an ass. talk about offended! it took him forever to get over that...nevermind that he was lying to my face everytime he spoke


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BS-me-50
fWH -54

Posts: 586 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: down south
crazyblindsided
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Member # 35215
Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH looks like an ass, walks like an an ass... yep he's an ass


BS/FWS (me):42 Madhatter
WS/BS:45 Serial Cheater
Together 20 years, Married 15
DD(12) DS(9)
DDay(s) Too many to count
Final Dday 7/11/14 Same OW2
D on hold for now
"Never seek validation from those who are unworthy."

Posts: 3637 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
mom of 2
♀ 11214
Member # 11214
Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)


Posts: 13390 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: The suburbs of hell
krazy8516
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Member # 40076
Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm pretty sure it's a prerequisite to becoming a WH. They go through AssHat101 and eventually graduate to Fuckery and The Spouses who Fall For It as part of their indoctrination into Unicorn Skittle Land.

Not gonna lie... I LOL'd

somewhere there is a donkey who is offended

Haha! (((donkey)))


me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."


Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
myperfectlife
♀ 39801
Member # 39801
Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I told my WH ass that calling him a POS was degrading to a POS.

He did actually agree with me on that.


I cannot be responsible for another's personal growth.
DDay#1 of a "cheatillion" 4/1/13
Divorce final 11/04/13

Posts: 452 | Registered: Jul 2013
StillLivin
♀ 40229
Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 2:58 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I concur X2!
My WH is an ass, has been an ass, and I'm probably stupid for thinking he will ever be anything different than an ass! LOL, yes I rolled over with laughter. Thank you folks! I needed this. Dealing with some real sh!t right now.


"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 3698 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
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