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PrincessPeach06 posted 8/13/2013 08:41 AM

I have only spoken to her once since all of this ( she is an old childhood friend and lives hours away) and all I asked for was her H's number and told her I didn't want to hear a thing she has to say. That doesn't stop me from having days of pure hatred toward her where I would love nothing more than to trash the shit out of her. This is a letter I guess, nothing I would ever send but just need to get it out.

Dear Home Wrecking Whore,

I would LOVE to know exactly what you were thinking! You called me
stupid and desperate and at first it pissed me off until I realized the idiocy of that statement!!!! YOU are really the stupid and desperate one!!!! Pursuing a married man with SIX kids!!!! You had ZERO regard for anyone but yourself. You did not care once about the 7 innocent lives you were trying to destroy - only that you got what you thought you wanted.

You threw ALL the blame onto my H - yes he was a giant idiot and is to blame 50% but you are NOT an innocent victim by any means. You knew exactly where he was and what he was doing that night and set out to get what you wanted. You even said he got what he wanted and then blocked you. GOOD!!! I know the truth but I hope you feel like the piece of trash that you are. Used and then tossed in the garbage like a piece of toilet paper. He realized what a good, honest, FAITHFUL woman he had and no piece of garbage like you was worth anything.

I could say I wish you the best (ha!) or that I wish you die alone and miserable but at this point I honestly don't care. My wish is to never hear your name or see you ever again - that you become the nothingness that you are and deserve to be.


Whew! I know it's harsh but I have never written anything out to her. I hope it helps me push some of that anger aside.

Lalagirl posted 8/13/2013 08:55 AM

***Big round of applause***

Excellent vent!

You're right - no need to send because SHE. DOESN'T. CARE. She would probably relish in your pain and anger expressed in this letter. She will never believe she did any wrong or own her shit - it is not in her moral compass.



PrincessPeach06 posted 8/13/2013 10:01 AM

Thank you :). It feels good to finally get it out. I'm sure I could go on and on and on but those are the main points lol

lynnm1947 posted 8/13/2013 10:08 AM

Good vent. Get it out.

After one of my XSO's bimbos called my private line, I called her back and told her in no uncertain terms that if she wanted to fu*k my boyfriend, she could use his cell phone, but if she ever ever used my private unlisted number again, I would have her charged with harassment. She kept saying, "But--but--but--" and I told her to shut up and listen.

She told my XSO that I am not a nice person.

GingerAle posted 8/13/2013 10:12 AM

That is an awesome letter!! Hope it helps with your anger, I know journaling has helped me so much. And as far as your letter being harsh, heck yeah! She deserves every word of it!

TxsT posted 8/13/2013 10:17 AM

Peach....we are only too happy to listen!!!!

I too had a hubby that was pursued by a venomous spider. She had a plan, saw an opportunity because she had access and spun a very tangled, nasty web. I felt your pain in your vent.

I unfortunately got to have a very long and painful conversation with my venomous OW. She contacted me directly on the night after she showed up unexpectedly at our doorstep....hard to do since we live in a different country....yes please take a moment to let that narcissistic action of hers sink in. She actually got on a plane and wound up here.

When she realized from H and my joint "get the hell out of our lives text" that she no longer had total control over the situation she texted me back directly and actually tired to tell me she had done nothing wrong, that my H was her very best friend in the whole world and why was I taking him away from her????? That their love for one another was pure and strong ( although H has told me she could never say that to him ever ) and why couldn't I just realize this was meant to be???

I took the opportunity to call her out on every point she tried to make. I got to say every nasty, disgusting thing I had pent up inside me, I even called her a whore who had to resort to befriending my hubby when her tactic of surprisingly pushing up against a bathroom door in a far off country and shoving her tongue down his throat didn't have the desired affect she thought it would have on him. To be fair to my H, he fought off her overtly sexual advances on him for over a year before she switched tactics. I also got to call her a narcissistic bitch who cared nothing for the 2 families she destroyed in her wake.

Sadly enough she is so into her self and delusional world that I doubt my words had any affect on her at all. We have had to resort to restraining orders in two country's to keep her at bay.


[This message edited by TxsT at 10:20 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)]

lostintally5581 posted 8/13/2013 10:19 AM

I wrote OW a very colorful letter right after DDAY calling her every name in the book. I did not know her personally she was a co worker of my WH. But she knew who I was and that he was married with 4 kids at home. didn't stop her from the chase. I even thought about making copies of the letter and taping them to every employees windshield.. so that every know what a piece of garbage OW is. I still have the letter never gave it to her....didn't want her to know she hurt me. I would walk into that store they worked at with my head held high and a smile on my face walk right up to WH and give him a big old hug and kiss I didn't even care that he was on the clock. That was enough for me to show OW that she failed to destroy my marriage.....Thankfully tho they no longer work at the same store as we no longer live in that town....tho 100 miles is still not far enough away!!

Ostrich80 posted 8/13/2013 13:02 PM

Way to go Peach. I'm a firm believer in writing it out. It does help. I could make a book with all my vents to ws.
I would like to tell ow
No ws is not a victim in our M. I'm not a bitch, but he's an excellent actor. I know he's lots of fun when he's playing, but you couldn't handle 24 hrs living with him...

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