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TattoodChinaDoll posted 8/13/2013 08:56 AM

Oh great members of SI...how I need your mojo for this evening. WH and I are meeting a financial planner to figure out what the best course of action is to pay of debts, save, etc. so he can get out of his mother trucking job and away from the whore. I have a feeling (or should I say I'm realistic about the fact) that we are going to have a timeline of years before it is safe for him to give up his job financially. I know healing takes years...I've always been prepared for that. I've never been prepared to have OW in my life that long. She has already been in my life too long as it is. I'm scared....very very scared of what more I need to shoulder to make this marriage work. I'm afraid that I have to give up my safety for years to come and fear every day that he leaves for work. That's the horrible part about A's with coworkers. He leaves every morning to something real...something that really happened...to a person he has history with. If you have any extra prayers or mojo, I'd be greatful.

LosferWords posted 8/13/2013 08:59 AM

Tons of mojo and positive vibes headed your way!

cancuncrushed posted 8/13/2013 08:59 AM

You have my prayers. The OW was coworker. I know your pain. Ground hogs day movie comes to my mind alot. Good Luck. Ow is gone for us. It was a big breath of relief.

nowiknow23 posted 8/13/2013 09:00 AM

TCD - Whatever the answers are, they will give you two power. Working toward this goal together gives you two power.

Keep that in mind. Kudos on taking this step!

confused615 posted 8/13/2013 09:18 AM

Done!

sisoon posted 8/13/2013 14:02 PM

Count me in. Congrats on taking this step for yourself and for your M.

jo2love posted 8/13/2013 14:10 PM

Sending mojo and good thoughts.

authenticnow posted 8/13/2013 14:12 PM

Sending mojo. I think that once you have a plan it will be a relief. Good luck!

TattoodChinaDoll posted 8/13/2013 15:19 PM

Thanks everyone! One more hour until the appointment. So scared. I think I need to get some Depends!

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