Because my husband intends to become involved in a local election, and because he is well known, I asked last night if he wasn't concerned that the woman, to whom he sent the picture of his private parts, might not recognize him in the media and 'out him'.
I said that I didn't know where she is located, but that I was concerned about that. (They were emailing - (sexting? or just bashing me?) and she asked for a pic of his penis. He sent one, and she responded, "no thanks" or 'not interested'. Something like that.) This happened 7 years ago.
He told me last night that the pic never went through. I told him that it did, and reminded him of her response. He said he can't remember what she was 'not interested' in, but that he KNEW the pic did not go through.
Then, he says that it is no problem - because she was from _____.
So, he doesn't remember what she was not interested in, but he does remember where she was from???
I asked him, if it was true that the pic didn't go through, why would he let me believe all these years that it did. No answer.
I don't know if the pic went through and he is trying to keep me from being worried about him being outed if she sees coverage of this election he is involved with --- or, if it didn't go through, and he let me believe that it did all these years.
Last night I asked him why he told me that it was sent. He said that when we were talking about all of this, I wasn't believing anything he said, so he just agreed with what I was accusing him of. (Can't imagine why I wasn't believing him!)
Anyway, I guess it doesn't matter, really. There was a pic of him naked with a prostitute - that's a fact - and he did at least attempt to send it to this woman - for whatever reason.
But it surely does make me wonder - as I always have - what the real story is.
After we spoke about these things last night, he said, "I'm sorry". I told him that I didn't believe him. That someone that is really sorry tries to make things right.
His response - no answer.
I also asked if he planned to keep these 'secrets' between him and 'them' - secrets that I am not privy to. No answer.
Don't know why I am posting this. I guess, its because I know you all will understand the frustration of once again finding out that you don't have an idea in hell what really happened.
[This message edited by WhatsRight at 10:08 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)]