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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 4:10 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013

Just a quick hi to let everyone know that I made it to my new location in upstate NY, everything is moved into my new apartment (it's a mess!), I'm sleeping in my own bed and I've started my new job (and should not be playing on SI ) More to come...

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 4:21 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013

Awesome!

Did you negotiate S.I. time into your contract? Cuz, you're gonna need it.

AJ's MOM

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

posts: 21424   ·   registered: Dec. 21st, 2007   ·   location: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:28 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013

Yay!!!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 4:59 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013

Welcome back to the East Coast!!

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

posts: 9299   ·   registered: Feb. 15th, 2009   ·   location: Western PA
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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 5:02 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013

Awesome, Sazzy! When's the apartment warming party?

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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tesla ( member #34697) posted at 5:12 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 5:43 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013

Should ANY of us be on SI right now????

Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.

posts: 4940   ·   registered: Oct. 18th, 2007
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torn2bits ( member #28376) posted at 6:12 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013

How wonderful and crazy for your apartment to be a mess!

So happy to hear you arrived safe and the new job is already off to a good start.

Me: 45/WH (SA): 49
M: 26 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce halted

posts: 1282   ·   registered: Apr. 26th, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 7:38 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013

I'm happy for you!

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

posts: 6709   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2010
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FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 8:09 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

posts: 21594   ·   registered: Jul. 7th, 2008   ·   location: Canada
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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 8:50 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2013

posts: 51035   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2011
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clba317 ( member #8803) posted at 4:18 AM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013

Welcome to the neighborhood!

BS
DS9,DS5
M 11, D 8/1/05- not soon enough!

posts: 228   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2005   ·   location: NY
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click4it ( member #209) posted at 5:39 AM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013

you sound very happy.

Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

posts: 25706   ·   registered: Jun. 21st, 2002   ·   location: California
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cmego ( member #30346) posted at 12:55 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013

me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced

posts: 4745   ·   registered: Dec. 9th, 2010   ·   location: South
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cayc ( member #21964) posted at 1:17 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013

I love how your username is now completely irrelevant

Can't wait to hear updates on how the job is going.

posts: 3446   ·   registered: Dec. 8th, 2008   ·   location: Mexico
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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 1:20 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013

looking forward to the 'more to come' posts

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 2:11 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013

looking forward to the 'more to come' posts

There are some interesting prospects here (not at the job but in the area) Right now I'm trying to get settled and hook up with a hiking group before the cold weather sets in. It was 61 degrees this morning and I wanted to put the heat on in my car--I think I'm in trouble!

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:12 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013

Um, yeah - your internal thermostat is going to be SO grumpy this winter.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 6:19 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013

Yeah, what's with these temperatures? Jeesh.

Anyway, welcome back to the east. Hope you don't suffer frost bite in the next few days.

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

posts: 8765   ·   registered: Jul. 11th, 2007   ·   location: Toronto, Canada
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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 6:47 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

posts: 6708   ·   registered: Jul. 15th, 2012   ·   location: Florida
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