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Topic: Friend's sister has gone missing
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betrayedfriend
♀ 19785
Member # 19785 |  Posted: 10:58 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 |     |
One of my dear friend's sister is missing, she went missing between last Tuesday and last Wednesday in the Pittsburgh area. Right now we are asking for prayers and if you or anyone you know would be willing to help pass out flyers to help find her we'd greatly appreciate that. My friend is frantic with worry, since her sister was supposed to be getting on a bus to come to her town, but never got on the bus, and hasn't been heard from since (she is in contact every day-every other day at most) The police have been notified and a missing person's report filed.
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
Posts: 917 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA |
DeadMumWalking
♀ 25341
Member # 25341 | | Posted: 11:06 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Oh no!!! ((((betrayedfriend, friend, sister))))
Sending strength and positive thoughts to you all.
When my son went missing last year, we plastered our area with posters, and also requested teens to take a picture of the poster and post it on their facebook to alert others.
We worked closely with the authorities (we live in a much smaller place than Pittburgh though, so it was probably easier for us), got his picture and an announcement on the tv national news, as well as local newspapers.
If there is a police media liaison, I would suggest trying to work with them.
Let me know if you would like any other practical advice (post or PM).
My heart is ACHING for the family, I know EXACTLY what they are going through. 
((((more hugs))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: 21, 20, 17
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options
Posts: 2927 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU |
NoTriangles
♀ 35985
Member # 35985 | | Posted: 11:27 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
so scary. Sending prayers for her safe return.
Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.
Posts: 1252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness |
DragnHeart
♀ 32122
Member # 32122 | | Posted: 11:52 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Sending prayers that she's found safe.
Does she have a cell phone? Police can request the cell carrier trace the phone.
Posts: 4240 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada |
Faithful w/Love
♀ 33128
Member # 33128 | | Posted: 11:56 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Sending prayers
BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
Posts: 2890 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 12:04 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Holding your friend and her family in my thoughts. Hope they find her sister safe and sound.
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28436 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
lynnm1947
♀ 15300
Member # 15300 | | Posted: 12:22 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
All good suggestions. I hope they find her and that she's safe.
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
Posts: 7706 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada |
Crushed1
♀ 6449
Member # 6449 | | Posted: 12:36 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Praying she will be found safe.
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH
Posts: 9992 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 12:47 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Saying prayers for a safe return.
Hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 6041 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 2:44 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Saying prayers.
Posts: 38336 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
JustDone
♀ 9742
Member # 9742 | | Posted: 2:57 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Sending prayers and hope she is found very soon, safe and sound.
Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.
Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.
Posts: 2839 | Registered: Feb 2006 |
jrc1963
♀ 26531
Member # 26531 | | Posted: 3:24 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Sending Prayers!
Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25028 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida |
betrayedfriend
♀ 19785
Member # 19785 | | Posted: 10:03 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Just got word from my friend, she started getting facebook messages (shortly after going public on FB and sending a copy of the flyer out) from her sister's account, she had doubts that it was her sister leaving the messages, and three hours later her sister called. She is safe, in a shelter in the Pittsburgh area, and said nothing about her disappearance. My friend, is relieved, happy, and totally pissed off at the same time. Thank you all for your prayers, My friend and I appreciate it so much!
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
Posts: 917 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA |
DragnHeart
♀ 32122
Member # 32122 | | Posted: 10:12 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Wonderful news!!! I have been checking in to see if there was an update. So glad she's safe!
Posts: 4240 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 10:18 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I'm so glad she's safe. 
Posts: 38336 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 10:20 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Best possible news!
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28436 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
gonnabe2016
♀ 34823
Member # 34823 | | Posted: 10:56 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I guess that FaceBook does have it's useful purposes, huh?
I'm very glad to hear that your friends sister is okay....
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Posts: 8438 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest |
DeadMumWalking
♀ 25341
Member # 25341 | | Posted: 1:27 AM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
This is the best news!! I'm glad she is safe. I hope she is able to get the help she needs.
Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: 21, 20, 17
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options
Posts: 2927 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU |
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