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RippedSoul posted 8/13/2013 16:55 PM

My fWS sent me this poem today and said he really liked it. That's all he shared. I'm not sure, exactly, what to make of it, but it feels positive. What do you think? Am I grasping? Or is this legit?


One Woman

by Ron Carlson

Oh, the old love song again and again
devotion and desire without end,
a woman half dressed somewhere and
being admired, or dressed and being admired.

These men go off alone into their rooms
and write it down: she was this and she was that.
Every man says she's the woman above all,
on a pedestal, though no one says pedestal,
that would be crazy,
and there's a thousand of these poems,
and by that I mean a million declarations
of this singular love of this one of a kind woman,
so rare, an absolute phenomenon which
many times rivals the moon or the oceans,
or the wind in the trees or night or any of the
furniture of night or day.

You see what I mean:
big unknowable things.
What are we to make of it? This:
it's true. Each man is telling the truth.
Each woman puts all the other women second.
It's the way. The strap of her gown off her shoulder,
and the paradox prevails. These poems are
all true. Each woman stands alone
in the doorway or on the pedestal
in the perfect light.

"One Woman" by Ron Carlson, from Room Service. Red Hen Press, 2012. Reprinted with permission.

OldCow18 posted 8/13/2013 17:06 PM

I hope that it is positive, but I have to admint, I'm confused by the poem.

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