I feel like I can't move on with my life. We hang out together now all of the time, but it's not like we are really in a place to hang out with our couple friends and have a good time. And then, I feel like making major purchases together (like furniture) is pointless because we don't know our future...
Can't you tell this confusion is frustrating me? I think I am probably rambling...
This time is survival time. You put your long-term goals and desires on the backburner and you just concentrate on Surviving One More Damned Day. You have to pick short-term goals that will allow your mind to focus, and try to set out longer-term goals with whatever mind is left.
You will not know the future for some time. That's survival. At some point, you will start to see glimpses of what the future might look like for you good and bad. And you'll start to think of plans to take advantage of what you see. And then little by little, you will start to see farther ahead and start to be able to set goals.
But at this point, minute by minute, to hour by hour is a win. Baby steps sistah. Taken in time. Sucks, but that IS the way it is. (((hugs)))
D-Day, June 10, 2012
I so understand. I've often felt it.
You know what though?? Buy that furniture for you.
Right now, its about you. You have to rebuild the joy in your life, without relying so heavily on your husband for it.
Do things for you. Its still your home, your life.
Do what makes YOU happy.
hugs crushed,,,,,
