Unfuckingbelievable.
The best part? His profile says that he's "new to this" (meaning online dating- which is bullshit, that's how he met ME), that he's "newly divorced and wants to start dating" (he's not even divorced yet!) that he's a social drinker (he drinks like a fish, every single day) and other assorted lies. His age isn't even right.
He moved out on SATURDAY and he's trolling the internet for women already!?! Good Lord, how pathetic. What a lying sack of shit.
God save me from these men who are emotionally retarded, don't know their ass from a hole in the ground, and can't be alone for 5 minutes.
When I met him he had nothing, owned nothing. I gave him a place to live and a life. I thought that mattered to him. Apparently not, all he thinks is important is his stupid grill and drinking his stupid beer.
I'm now convinced I made the right decision when I told him that I wouldn't "date" him after he moved out, like he wanted me to. Because now I know that what he really wanted was someone to sleep with while he looked for someone new.
Fucking asshole.
I just gotta wonder. Who fucks around with mighty Eranda?
A dumbass.
You did all that for him? The stupid is stunning in that guy.
Now a hard question, how do you know this? Are you trolling yourself?
There is nothing you can do but try to learn from the experience and choose someone healthier for your future.
Now to Eranda: I'm with the others - you dodged a mighty bullet with this jerk. Sounds a LOT like my exH - He had someone new very quickly after D-day and had her pregnant before we even filed for divorce!
Some people are just like that - they can't stand to live in their own skin, so they need someone else to quiet the insecurities in their head.
You are well rid of him because you are simply too strong and AWESOME to put up with the likes of him and those like him.
He's a douche and you made the perfect decision. Doesn't make it hurt less, I know. But, in time you will be oh-so-glad you dumped him right out of your awesome life. He doesn't deserve to share your oxygen.
All you did was be kind, loving, loyal and generous. And he proved unworthy of it.
((((Eranda))))
"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you." -Walt Whitman
I asked him if he really thought I was that stupid. Told him his behavior was very hurtful and to keep me out of it please. After that... crickets.
Seriously how could I have been so wrong about who this person is?
Wasband is a great pretender too. Still gets me with it, even 18 months post-D.
Don't try this at home, Eranda - leave it to the professionals. (((hugs)))
I think this should be SI's tagline!
I love when I get verification that I am on the right road (especially if I am struggling or lonely). You are on the right road....keep driving and don't look back.
I know its men and women, but some of these people are sooo good at looking the part, just almost makes me shake with fear. I don't want another broken boy.
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
And yes, many of the people on online dating are broken- that's why they're there in the first place.
Personally, I would never do it again.
Sorry just had to mention how much this made me laugh :)
The Mighty Eranda Moves On.
"What did you expect? I am a scorpion."
His profile contained nothing but lies.
Just when you think your situation is unique, you find it really isn't.
What dirt bags.
This is very difficult- knowing that a person who used to tell you how important you were, forgets all about you so easily. I'm sure he's not even looking back, the fucking douche.
Oh well, I just spent the morning putting my yard back the way *I* want it, and cleaning up. This is the first time I've cut the grass myself in a while LOL.
The Mighty Eranda Moves On is right...
(((Eranda)))
