[This message edited by huRtZ413 at 10:17 AM, August 14th (Wednesday)]
I'M ON THE FENCE
If I were in your shoes I would immediately sit down and talk about the fact that no job is worth killing a family. You need to express your honest feelings about what this job will do to you, your children if there are any. My H was horrified to learn just how destructive his all important job and quest for success had hurt the people around him the most. We had all that your husband wants to give you...we had a comfortable and beautiful house in a really great neighbourhood, we had nice cars, we had a good school for the boys. When I pointed out that in my eyes, and the kids, he was a huge success it never dawned on him to stop the rat race.
I feel for you. I wouldn't want my hubby to get another traveling job either and if he did, I would be going with him when he traveled for work. Not out of non trust issues but because I am like you.....sick and tired of being so damn alone all the time!!!!!
Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!