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User Topic: Day 3 of being apart
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Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I left him on Monday. I am not as devastated as DDay, but I am grieving over the loss of my marriage. I miss my husband. I keep wishing none of this ever happened...his betrayal...all of it. But it did.

I haven't heard from him. No calls, no texts, no emails. Nothing.

I keep hoping he will have an epiphany and realize the loss.

I don't think that will happen.

I need to stop being hurt by him.

I just didn't deserve this. How cruel to hurt me over and over again.

me: BS
him: WS

D Day: July 27, 2012
Day of first suspicion: 6/7/11
DD#2: November 2, 2012


Posts: 107 | Registered: Sep 2012
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Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

island girl...

One day at a time...keep focused on your own healing.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

Posts: 204668 | Registered: May 2002
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, honey - you didn't deserve this. Put self-care at the top of your list. Stop looking to him for epiphanies or contact, and focus on yourself and your healing. ((((hugs))))

You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
- The Doctor

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