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User Topic: Just Read "Research on Internet Infidelity" in Healing Library
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just read the subject article in this website's Healing Library. My knees went weak reading it. So 100% true.

Interesting side note. When my wife and I would text, FB Message, email, etc., we actually communicated better than when we were physiaclly together. I tried to but she had this shell around her. yet, though electronics sources, she could.

Stunning article.

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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think that there's an element of confrontation, or "reality" if you will, that's removed when we communicate electronically. It's like we have artificial bravery because there's a middle man (woman? thing?) that will protect us from feeling too much.

"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron

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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Exactly J. So in my case, wife will probably be heading into FB Fabio's arms...and when the fantasy ends and real life kicks in, will they be in separate rooms FB messaging one another orrr. LOL

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