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soveryweary posted 8/14/2013 11:38 AM

Hello, I contacted the OW's husbands sister via FB.
This was about 6 weeks ago. I gave her my number but I have not heard from the OW husband.
I googled his name, nothing pops up. I have tried every avenue I can to get a number for him.
I may have located a brother.
I dont' know, should I just let it go?
They have been seeing each other almost 4 years now, we were in false reconciliation for over 3 years.
In the middle of divorcing right now.
I am thinking maybe it's just not meant for me to let the poor man know.

dawnmarie posted 8/14/2013 11:58 AM

I would try one more time. Maybe the brother will be more direct with the BH. It's very likely the sister went straight to whooer to fix it with her as to not hurt her brother prematurely. Sometimes we women want to "fix" things to save others from pain.... I'm sure if she did, whooer gave her some song and dance and sister believed it.

[This message edited by dawnmarie at 11:59 AM, August 14th (Wednesday)]

sparkysable posted 8/14/2013 12:08 PM

if you aren't friends with the OW's H's sister, it most likely went to her "other" folder, which most people don't know about.

P.S. send me some names and any other info you have via pm, I'm pretty good at this kind of stuff.