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tesla posted 8/14/2013 14:00 PM
I've kept up my friendship with ex-shat's step mom. I'm the daughter she never had and she has been able to keep up a relationship with Teslet. Haven't seen ex-shat's dad since last Sept...possibly even August. Ex-shat started lying about me to his dad and his dad was buying it. Teslet and I are going to meet ex-shat's stepmom today for a late lunch...she just texted and said his dad is coming too. I'm nervous and not sure about this.
Just going to keep the focus on Teslet the whole time until I can gauge what is going on with ex-shat's dad.
Mojo please.
tryingagain74 posted 8/14/2013 14:05 PM
You have been mojoed! 
Crescita posted 8/14/2013 14:16 PM
Mojo your way but you don't need it. Ex-shat's pop wouldn't invite himself along if he wasn't beginning to see the truth of the situation.
nowiknow23 posted 8/14/2013 14:20 PM
mojo mojo mojo
lieshurt posted 8/14/2013 14:20 PM
Sending lots of mojo!
hexed posted 8/14/2013 14:44 PM
i hope it goes well!
Kajem posted 8/14/2013 16:22 PM
Sending mojo
dlmos posted 8/14/2013 16:31 PM
Sending mojo!
tesla posted 8/14/2013 16:48 PM
Thanks everyone! It went well. I could tell he was as apprehensive as I was. But we always got along so well so it wasn't too hard to find lots of safe ground to talk about.
I also think he realizes the only way he is going to consistently see his grandson is through me.
The things that ex-shat was saying about me to his dad were so incredibly hurtful. It hurt that his dad believed them...I know he wanted to hang on to his son (they've had a very rocky relationship over the years.) But I guess it just goes to show that blaming the ex-wife for ALL your woes and problems doesn't work forever with reasonable people.
phmh posted 8/14/2013 17:51 PM
I'm seeing this late, and so glad it went well!
better4me posted 8/14/2013 19:20 PM
too late for mojo, but I see it went swimmingly. Happy it didn't give you hives!
Amazonia posted 8/14/2013 20:05 PM
I'm so glad it went well, Tes