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tesla
♀ 34697
Member # 34697 |  Posted: 2:00 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013 |     |
I've kept up my friendship with ex-shat's step mom. I'm the daughter she never had and she has been able to keep up a relationship with Teslet. Haven't seen ex-shat's dad since last Sept...possibly even August. Ex-shat started lying about me to his dad and his dad was buying it. Teslet and I are going to meet ex-shat's stepmom today for a late lunch...she just texted and said his dad is coming too. I'm nervous and not sure about this.
Just going to keep the focus on Teslet the whole time until I can gauge what is going on with ex-shat's dad.
Mojo please.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Posts: 4956 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
tryingagain74
♀ 33698
Member # 33698 | | Posted: 2:05 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
You have been mojoed! 
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 3686 | Registered: Oct 2011 |
Crescita
♀ 32616
Member # 32616 | | Posted: 2:16 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Mojo your way but you don't need it. Ex-shat's pop wouldn't invite himself along if he wasn't beginning to see the truth of the situation.
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Posts: 3611 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 2:20 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
You can call me NIK
"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman
Posts: 27291 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
lieshurt
♀ 14003
Member # 14003 | | Posted: 2:20 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Sending lots of mojo!
A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.
Posts: 13961 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston |
hexed
♀ 19258
Member # 19258 | | Posted: 2:44 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
i hope it goes well!
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 8682 | Registered: Apr 2008 |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 4:22 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Sending mojo
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 5936 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
dlmos
♂ 36839
Member # 36839 | | Posted: 4:31 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Sending mojo!
BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced
Posts: 461 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Fort Worth,Texas |
tesla
♀ 34697
Member # 34697 | | Posted: 4:48 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Thanks everyone! It went well. I could tell he was as apprehensive as I was. But we always got along so well so it wasn't too hard to find lots of safe ground to talk about.
I also think he realizes the only way he is going to consistently see his grandson is through me.
The things that ex-shat was saying about me to his dad were so incredibly hurtful. It hurt that his dad believed them...I know he wanted to hang on to his son (they've had a very rocky relationship over the years.) But I guess it just goes to show that blaming the ex-wife for ALL your woes and problems doesn't work forever with reasonable people.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Posts: 4956 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
phmh
♀ 34146
Member # 34146 | | Posted: 5:51 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
I'm seeing this late, and so glad it went well!
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
Posts: 3646 | Registered: Dec 2011 |
better4me
♀ 30341
Member # 30341 | | Posted: 7:20 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
too late for mojo, but I see it went swimmingly. Happy it didn't give you hives!
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced
Posts: 3269 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa |
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810 | | Posted: 8:05 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
I'm so glad it went well, Tes
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Posts: 14003 | Registered: Jul 2011 |
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