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User Topic: mojo please
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've kept up my friendship with ex-shat's step mom. I'm the daughter she never had and she has been able to keep up a relationship with Teslet. Haven't seen ex-shat's dad since last Sept...possibly even August. Ex-shat started lying about me to his dad and his dad was buying it. Teslet and I are going to meet ex-shat's stepmom today for a late lunch...she just texted and said his dad is coming too. I'm nervous and not sure about this.
Just going to keep the focus on Teslet the whole time until I can gauge what is going on with ex-shat's dad.
Mojo please.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4958 | Registered: Jan 2012
tryingagain74
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Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have been mojoed!


FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 4079 | Registered: Oct 2011
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo your way but you don't need it. Ex-shat's pop wouldn't invite himself along if he wasn't beginning to see the truth of the situation.


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3636 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mojo mojo mojo


You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
― The Doctor


Posts: 36846 | Registered: Aug 2011
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending lots of mojo!


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

Posts: 14825 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
hexed
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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i hope it goes well!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending mojo


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 6677 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
dlmos
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Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending mojo!


BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced

Posts: 461 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Fort Worth,Texas
tesla
♀ 34697
Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone! It went well. I could tell he was as apprehensive as I was. But we always got along so well so it wasn't too hard to find lots of safe ground to talk about.

I also think he realizes the only way he is going to consistently see his grandson is through me.

The things that ex-shat was saying about me to his dad were so incredibly hurtful. It hurt that his dad believed them...I know he wanted to hang on to his son (they've had a very rocky relationship over the years.) But I guess it just goes to show that blaming the ex-wife for ALL your woes and problems doesn't work forever with reasonable people.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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phmh
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm seeing this late, and so glad it went well!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


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better4me
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Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

too late for mojo, but I see it went swimmingly. Happy it didn't give you hives!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3844 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad it went well, Tes


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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