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User Topic: Here is a Wtf day.
July73
♂ 37426
Member # 37426
Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I leave for work very early this morning 4:30 am to be exact. Had to be on sight by 7:00 am, so I get there safe and text BW when I arrived as I always do to let her know I made it safe. She was not awake yet, which is normal, so I continue on with my day. I checked my phone at about 9:30 am and still no response so I text her again. She responds and all is good. I work away from home a lot and I understand it is hard for her, I wish I did not have to be gone so much but that is part of the job. So my phone has to stay in my office trailer when we are out, do to dangerous gases and such, I work in the oilfield, so no phones on any workers while around danger zones. So I came back to my office trailer around 11:40 am I check my phone and there are 4 texts and one missed call. I check my messages and 3 are from my wife and one from an assistant. The ones from my BW are WTF is a women answering your phone? The next is What can't come up with a reason why you are busted? and then "crickets". So while I was out working my BW called and apparently a women answered. Now for one thing there were no women on my location. I can see my office from where i was working and no one was there. There were a total of 7 guys on location that would back everything up. None of them are personal friends so they would not lie. She said she called twice the first time a woman answered and the second went to my voice mail. I know I have caused her to not trust anything I say I have lied so much in the past, I own that. I was told that possibly the call got directed to a wrong number, My BW says she dialed the right number, I am not arguing that. But there was no woman any where around, I don't understand what happened, why it happened or how it happened. She is accusing me of having another affair and lying again. I have been working hard on my lying issues with IC and reading. I just don't know what I am going to do. Any help would be much appreciated.


WH Me 41
BW 39
M 18 yrs.
LTA 1.5 yrs.
D-day Sept 21,2012. Worst day of my life... can not imagine how it must have been for my loving wife. I am so sorry.

Posts: 38 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Alberta,Canada
knightsbff
♀ 36853
Member # 36853
Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I once called my teenage daughter's phone late at night while she was at home with me and a strange man answered. I flipped out and ran into her room with my 45 thinking there was someone in the house but apparently the call got directed to a wrong number even though the correct number was dialed. Apparently this just happens sometimes.

I have no idea how you can explain this to your wife to make her feel safe. Didn't the woman who answered tell her it was a wrong number?


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️


Posts: 1509 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
July73
♂ 37426
Member # 37426
Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah I have heard it happening. All my wife asked was who she was talking to and said must have the wrong number and hung up. But not before thinking the worst. And now she thinks I am just lying.


WH Me 41
BW 39
M 18 yrs.
LTA 1.5 yrs.
D-day Sept 21,2012. Worst day of my life... can not imagine how it must have been for my loving wife. I am so sorry.

Posts: 38 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Alberta,Canada
Scubachick
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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She could be trying to trick you. Look at your call log and see how long the call was.

Posts: 787 | Registered: Jul 2013
July73
♂ 37426
Member # 37426
Default  Posted: 10:56 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Call log just says missed. I am not sure how she would be trying to trick me. She just said a woman answered. That's it.


WH Me 41
BW 39
M 18 yrs.
LTA 1.5 yrs.
D-day Sept 21,2012. Worst day of my life... can not imagine how it must have been for my loving wife. I am so sorry.

Posts: 38 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Alberta,Canada
knightsbff
♀ 36853
Member # 36853
Default  Posted: 11:24 PM, August 14th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have her check the phone bill. It should show the one that went to voice mail but not the one that got routed to the wrong number and answered. That should prove it.


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️


Posts: 1509 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
July73
♂ 37426
Member # 37426
Default  Posted: 12:29 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I guess in Canada you can only check the bill monthly. There is no way to check a daily call log. Still don't make sense, other than a misdirected call. Still would not be a big deal if I had not done what I have done. Consequences for my past.


WH Me 41
BW 39
M 18 yrs.
LTA 1.5 yrs.
D-day Sept 21,2012. Worst day of my life... can not imagine how it must have been for my loving wife. I am so sorry.

Posts: 38 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Alberta,Canada
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