It ends when you stop asking questions....
There's always going to be something, some detail, some thought she had, some person she ran into and forgot about during the A, etc. etc. etc...
When I finally did a polygraph and she could put her mind to rest about all the worst case scenarios, she was also able to stop the mental barrage of questions (you know, the ones that were never asked, but danced in her head everyday)
I highly recommend the poly. It is just as important for the wayward to show that they are telling you the truth as it is for you to know you have the truth.
D-Days April - Oct. 2007 Recovery started Nov. 2007
"Found Myself", I was right there in my shoes all along!
Search for self called off!
Why Repentance Is Necessary? Because Undeserved Mercy Empowers Entitlement/Sin