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OWhore is pregnant and it was Not an accident

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FieldsOfLavender posted 8/15/2013 21:39 PM

I know the pregnancy was NOT an accident bc I am familiar with the birth control practices of my STBX. OWhore has been wanting a baby from the beginning because her biological clock is ticking and she will be 40 in a few days. The current fetus will be born while STBX and I are still legally married.

While he still acknowledges his 8 yo child and cares for her, I feel like STBX has kicked his current family to the curb like yesterday's trash.

nowiknow23 posted 8/15/2013 21:41 PM

Oh, Lavender. I'm so very sorry. ((((lavender and 8 yo))))

Crushed1 posted 8/15/2013 21:45 PM

((((Fields))))

jo2love posted 8/15/2013 22:07 PM

(((FieldsOfLavender)))

CheaterMagnet posted 8/15/2013 22:23 PM

(((((((Fields)))))))

I'm also wishing massive shoe puking morning sickness on the Whore. For the ENTIRE pregnancy.

FieldsOfLavender posted 8/15/2013 23:39 PM

I'm also wishing massive shoe puking morning sickness on the Whore. For the ENTIRE pregnancy.

Thank you, Cheatermagnet.

STBX emailed me the pregnancy news AFTER he told his family and our 8 yo child.

Nature_Girl posted 8/15/2013 23:47 PM

EW. I'm sorry!

FieldsOfLavender posted 8/15/2013 23:57 PM

Despite the lying, denying, sex chats, physical affair, the door that led to the ray of hope slammed shut with this news. I have been wanting a 2nd child for so long and he kept putting me off with excuses of it's too expensive, I'm too old, world is over populated, etc. He even discussed the "pressure" I put on him during his fucking sex chats with Owhore.

5454real posted 8/16/2013 00:43 AM

AFTER he told his family and our 8 yo child.

WHAAAT????

Divorce from this Douche will be a blessing!!!

Involving a child like that???

Speechless

newlysingle posted 8/16/2013 00:45 AM

FOL, I'm so sorry. Dealing with an OC is a whole new pain entirely. You are right in feeling like you've been tossed aside like yesterday's trash. It is so sick that he is having a baby with another woman while you are still married to him. These men are just sick, sick, sick!

I have a feeling I will be in your shoes very soon. OW in my case also has a ticking biological clock and is desperate for a baby.

Whalers11 posted 8/16/2013 06:19 AM

I am so sorry. I was ready to start a family with my ex and he had every excuse to wait... well, OW ended up pregnant. He said it was an accident, but she was claiming she was pregnant when she was less than 4 weeks along... who says that unless they are trying??

I am sorry...OC's are one of the worst things imaginable.

TrustGone posted 8/16/2013 07:20 AM

Well I hope the bitch has quadupulets and they keep him awake for years to come and bleed his pockets dry. I am so sorry (((FOL)))

TrustGone posted 8/16/2013 07:20 AM

Well I hope the bitch has quadupulets and they keep him awake for years to come and bleed his pockets dry. I am so sorry (((FOL)))

Undefinabl3 posted 8/16/2013 07:37 AM

I feel really bad for this new innocent life. It didn't ask for the life its going to be born into, or the idiot parents who will raise it.

((((Lavendar and 8 yo)))

MelisssaZZZ posted 8/16/2013 07:44 AM

(((FOL agd 8yr old)))

Ashland13 posted 8/16/2013 14:04 PM

I'm really sorry, FOL.

I have a lot of empathy and sympathy, because I and others are suspicious that Nearly Exh has an OC but will not admit it. It's not something I can fathom having to cope with, besides the rest.

FWIW to share, sometimes I've thought that Nearly Exh doesn't think he's married anymore, like in his heart (clearly) and mind (distorted) (and has actually denied me by calling himself a widower while I am very much alive) and hasn't for some time, so I think that's how he was able to go through with his a.

BeyondBreaking posted 8/16/2013 14:23 PM

(((((Lavender)))))

I hope she pukes all day, everyday for 9 months and gets bloated to the size of a helium parade balloon.

Blackhair posted 8/16/2013 21:45 PM

(((Lavender)))
Sorry to hear what you are going through, trust me, they wont be together long, as once a cheater, always a cheater, get someone else pregnant when he is still married.it is SICK! OW deserves a miscarriage!

FieldsOfLavender posted 8/16/2013 22:58 PM

Sorry to hear what you are going through, trust me, they wont be together long, as once a cheater, always a cheater, get someone else pregnant when he is still married.it is SICK! OW deserves a miscarriage!

Blackhair, are you sure it won't last? It's been 1.5 years since they met. STBX has told whore that he loved her 7 months ago. He also told me 7 months ago that he would not give her a baby.

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