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Reconciliation :
Wedding Anniversary

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 Beloved827 (original poster new member #31006) posted at 2:56 PM on Friday, August 16th, 2013

Today is mine and my husbands 10th wedding anniversary. In 2010 he was actively engaged in the EA part of the affair at this time. In 2011 even the thought of acknowledging this day made me feel physically ill. In 2012 he tentatively wished me a Happy Anniversary before he left for work in the morning and I told him that I wasn't ready for that yet, that we weren't in a bad place but I just wasn't ready for that yet. He'd been hopeful when he said it and I watched him just sort of deflate as he said ok. Today, 3 years later, I was ready. Not wanting to make a big deal or have a big dramatic scene I simply hugged him on his way out the door and said it. Happy Anniversary. And I meant it. I'm feeling pretty good about that

Me-BS-35
Him-WS-34
M-8 years, together for 13
DDay-9/11/10
R
"Let me make something clear, you flushed our marriage down the toilet the moment you started talking to her. You just made sure it wasn't clogged by fu**ing her."

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:32 PM on Friday, August 16th, 2013

Happy Anniversary! What a beautiful post.

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musiclovingmom ( member #38207) posted at 3:36 PM on Friday, August 16th, 2013

Yay! Happy Anniversary!

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 Beloved827 (original poster new member #31006) posted at 8:46 PM on Friday, August 16th, 2013

Thank you jo2love and music

Me-BS-35
Him-WS-34
M-8 years, together for 13
DDay-9/11/10
R
"Let me make something clear, you flushed our marriage down the toilet the moment you started talking to her. You just made sure it wasn't clogged by fu**ing her."

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1956 ( member #33045) posted at 3:50 PM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013

I agree

so nice you can get back to the feelings of it being special, next year you plan something really special and show that man of yours you have really turned the corner ......

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LA44 ( member #38384) posted at 4:08 PM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013

Happy Anniversary Beloved827!

Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

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5674emt ( member #40012) posted at 7:43 PM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! Thanks for the encouragement. We have not made it to a year yet and it is nice to see that it can be done.

BS 53
WH 44
M 14 years at time of DD
2 young daughters
DD 12-8-12
OW=Xfriend
A-3 YEARS and her husband was an accomplice.
In R, IC, & MC Since 1 week after DD. On the mend with the help of God, Friends and Family.

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