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Beloved827 posted 8/16/2013 08:56 AM
Today is mine and my husbands 10th wedding anniversary. In 2010 he was actively engaged in the EA part of the affair at this time. In 2011 even the thought of acknowledging this day made me feel physically ill. In 2012 he tentatively wished me a Happy Anniversary before he left for work in the morning and I told him that I wasn't ready for that yet, that we weren't in a bad place but I just wasn't ready for that yet. He'd been hopeful when he said it and I watched him just sort of deflate as he said ok. Today, 3 years later, I was ready. Not wanting to make a big deal or have a big dramatic scene I simply hugged him on his way out the door and said it. Happy Anniversary. And I meant it. I'm feeling pretty good about that 
jo2love posted 8/16/2013 09:32 AM
Happy Anniversary! What a beautiful post.
musiclovingmom posted 8/16/2013 09:36 AM
Yay! Happy Anniversary!
Beloved827 posted 8/16/2013 14:46 PM
Thank you jo2love and music
1956 posted 8/17/2013 09:50 AM
I agree
so nice you can get back to the feelings of it being special, next year you plan something really special and show that man of yours you have really turned the corner ......
LA44 posted 8/17/2013 10:08 AM
Happy Anniversary Beloved827!
5674emt posted 8/17/2013 13:43 PM
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! Thanks for the encouragement. We have not made it to a year yet and it is nice to see that it can be done.