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User Topic: suicidal wtf
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Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 10:36 AM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Had IC today, difficulty dealing with phone calls/skype from WH (who is in Brasil for 2 more weeks)..... Sometime I just don't know how much longer I can last.

Big fucking trigger last few calls: he says 'I miss you'.

Should seem normal, right? EXCEPT: He has NEVER EVER said that to me in *30 years*.

So WTF?? I just don't know if there's any point any more.

Me (BS), Him (WH): mid-50's
3 DS: 23, 23, 19
M: 28 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 33
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen

Posts: 6290 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
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Member # 29826
Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Oh honey, I hear your pain. Is there someone close by that you can be with Right Now?

Me 48yrs, king of douchebagastan- 50yrs STD infected bankrupt NPD sociopathic drunk thief
countless A's, he is a predator that targets losers like himself
Last Dday 04/12/2010-Divorcing if/when his cumdumpsters lend him some $ or balls to file

Posts: 1522 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Ingersoll Ontario
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Member # 6449
Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"

Posts: 10023 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
♂ 36857
Member # 36857
Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hang tough. Seek immediate help from your IC and doctor.

Your children need you, always.

Me: BH 58.........Her: WW 45
DD: 8..........DS: 6 (5 and 2 on DDay)
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12

Posts: 1288 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: U.S.A.
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Member # 26465
Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So is he still working with OW??

You have to decide when enough is enough...

This is all on him not you. You are enough honey..It is him that is broken please do not let him break you too..

Call your counselor set up an emergency appointment.
If he is putting this type of stress and thoughts in your mind then by golly stay separated and 180 him and don't give a rats ass what he is doing. Focus on you and what makes you happy!!

For the comment I think sometimes they get older an they really do wake up and see the light..Sometimes
Maybe he truly does miss you???

Be happy and do things that make you laugh today..
Exercise drink plenty of fluids and laugh if possible it helps with depression.

There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

Posts: 3225 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana
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