I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.
He probably thought that meeting the friend was no big deal and irrelevant to yu because it is irrelevant to him. He most likely is not going to understand that it IS a big deal.
It IS a big deal because:
-It is a detail that he left out, that now you ended up finding out later. Leaving out even small details makes the BS wonder what other details are left out.
-To him, meeting friends was probably no big deal. To you, meeting friends IS a HUGE deal. That is another person who was aware of what was going on in your marriage when you were not. That is another person who partcipated in the lie. Additionally, there was personal lives shared- he knew at least one of her friends. They were more public than you lead on to believe.
-Makes you wonder who else knew and was hiding it from you.
Jana is right. Katie is an idiot and a whore-enabler. If she was a *good* friend, she would have told OW to stop her behavior at once- not keep it a secret and then participate in harassing the BS family when the affair is made public.
I am so sorry roses.
"What did you expect? I am a scorpion."